hi i lived with someone for 38 years and the last year and half they left approximately 5 times?

Question

i have lived with someone for a 38 years and during the last year and half since her brother and i got in and argument when he came here after she hadnt seen him for about 32 years he left and got his own girlfriend now and we get along him and i pretty good but she left me approximately 5 times within the year and half going to her mothers and her mother after all these years doesnt want me in her house and i did nothing to her i have left her come back everytime what is going on now she goes by herself to her mothers to visit but i cant attend and i swear nothing was done ever to her mother;but her mother likes to control she now dont want his girlfriend in the house either its her way and it causes a fuss in our relationship and in theirs ; i told her great then i dont want to go there if im not wanted what happen after going there for 37 years and now im a outcast

im sorry for such long sentences;maybe because im upset.;what is it that cant be read? yes we are married and no there was nothing ever done to her mother; ive always been nice to her family.I am just in a maze trying to figure out after 38 years of why someone would treat the other partner like this?I take care of all the stuff she bounced checks when she left gave them money ;and ive only taken her back because i love her......ghees you just cant imagine what this feels'' like'' and i have tried to talk it out nicely with her and she just screams I will do what I want.....

Answer 1

Your first mistake was not marrying her 38 years ago.

Your second mistake was taking in her brother for any length of time (other than say, a weekend visit)

Your third mistake was taking her back the first time.

It's time to make a stand now - either your gf straightens up her act and her mama's too - or it's time to move on.

Yeah, 38 years is a long time - but you CAN start over.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Your entry is extremely difficult to read since there is no punctuation.
That being said, I will try to decipher what the message is (but suggest that you brush up on English).
I highly doubt that the brother or the mother would get mad or shun you for no reason whatsoever. There HAS to be a reason and you should ask your partner what it is. You should sit down and have a heart to heart with her and tell her that you can't live in a situation where family members are not open and honest with eachother and that you'd like to call a meeting with everyone to air grievances and mend differences.
Perhaps the mother isn't speaking to you due to the argument that happened with the brother? You will only know if you ask. But you'd have to tread softly with this one. You'd have to speak kindly and calmly giving others a chance to speak and trying to acknowledge your part in the problems.
Family difficulties are not easy but maybe if you talk calmly and express that you are concerned about the lack of closeness they will open up to you.

Answer 4

Wow. That was one long, incomplete sentence. I don't think I even understand what it is you're asking here!

Could it be that since you've only "lived with" this person for 38 years that they're tired of not having a commitment to you?

Answer 5

Tell her this goes both ways....you're not allowed in her mother's house then her mother is not allowed in your house. If she can't accept that and wants to run home to mommy, then she needs to take all her things with her as you're not treating your house like a hotel with a revolving door.

Answer 6

i think thats sad,but you have a relationship with her ,not her mother.are you married to her?you need to sit down with her mother and ask if there was something said or done that you was unaware of and if so to forgive you.if this doesnt work then she has to live with this for the rest of her life and it will eat her up inside . if you love her daughter and not married to then maybe you should.maybe this is her mothers thinking.

Answer 7

I think he left because you can't finish a sentence.

Answer 8

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