please I need help I am a very actrive young african female, sitll in high school and I'm about to turn 18 in a few months. And I never found a guy that would treat me right. I mean like it would be great for the first few weeks but then it goes sour. I need help tryin to find that someone who can treat me right and, and someone who I can give my all to. now tell me is their anyone out thier who give me what me what I need.
Please no jokes this is a serious question
2007-06-08 01:58:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They allot of the young guys now have issues and don't know how to treat a young lady the only advice I could tell you is FOCUS on yourself and college and your career everything will fall into to place don't rush it...
Guys are not going anywhere they will always been here
Don't Settle for a no good guy either
Love self, everything will workout
2007-06-08 02:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, there are men out there. You are only 18. What is your hurry? Why don't you get a life for yourself before you give the one away to a guy? You should be able to support yourself and have a home of your own before you settle down with a guy that just may leave you hanging in the breeze when he decides to leave you. Ten years down the road, where will you be if you can't even support yourself and he throws you out into the street?
2007-06-08 09:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're really too young to be concerned with finding someone. I think kids are so lacking in affection from their parents, they falsely assume they need a relationship right away - someone to "love" them.
You'll meet more people in college who have the same interests as you do. Meet boys at church. Volunteer in the community (yes, old people have young nephews they're dying to set you up with).
2007-06-08 09:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 40 years old and still looking. Good luck. Hollywood is just two dimensional fiction stories. Real life is alot different. Finding that perfect partner is like a lottery, and happens about as often.
Be true to yourself and watch your back.
2007-06-08 09:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by ninebadthings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are still 18 and you have your whole life ahead of you.It took me about 10 years to find my Mr Right. Take one step at a time and enjoy your life right now.You are young and you have that advantage.You will find that special someone as you go about .......
2007-06-08 09:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by monica p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there....I'm sure you will meet that special someone one day that would treat you the way a girl should be treated...so don't even trip boo u will meet that gay....good luck and god bless...and don't start think bed about yourself stand tell and hold your head up high and walk with confidents.
2007-06-08 09:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by LadyBoss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in high school. That's why.
What you're looking for is not exactly easy to find, you need to be a bit more patient. But if you go to college, you might find some new people and new opportunities.
2007-06-08 09:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax...you are so young and it sounds like you have a good head on your sholders. Just be yourself and keep high standards and the right guy will find you.
2007-06-08 09:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lima Bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, firstly - if you're still at school? is there anyone spesfic guys you might connect to? depending on who you hang out with (all girls, guys - or maybe a mixed bunch of people)!, maybe you should do after school activities, & maybe there ... you might someone, who you might really connect with? i'm just giving you a few ideas ...
good luck : )
2007-06-08 09:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by CMJohnson-1988 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself every time you go out. With that way he will know how you really are and he will decide if he wants the relationship to go to the next level.
2007-06-08 09:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by Labros S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋