When my fiance kissed me for the 1st time it was my very first time to be kissed.. I felt nothing at all... It was like a strange creature got stuck to my lips and tried to get inside my mouth...
I am 23 yo I decided never to kiss my fiance again untill we get married... I really need to know what's wrong with me.
2007-06-08 00:04:26 · 12 answers · asked by adorable 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU WHERE PROBABLY JUST NERVOUS. IT WILL GET BETTER.
2007-06-08 00:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is absurd, I can understand not kissing in public, but you're going at this like it's the Victorian ages. I have had that feeling before, like something isn't right when you kiss your significant other, I waited a while, but that gut feeling turned out to be a sign and a precursor to a bad relationship. Not all relationships are physical, but at the very least you should be able to extract some enjoyment from kissing your fiance!
2007-06-08 07:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by localsdrocker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your situation sounds a bit strange, but I guess that's love for you right? love is strange to begin with, a kiss is sign of affection which is a sign of love, so maybe the real issue here is do you love your fiance, the moment should be one that is exuberating, not a thing like a strange creature getting stuck to your lips, you must welcome love and not push it away until you marry, nothing is wrong with you, you need to find out what you love in this case do you love your fiancee?
2007-06-08 07:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by ~Janey~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is pretty strange that you would feel nothing. If he is your fiancee and you have only kissed him one time, that is even stranger. Are you in love with this man? Is it an arranged marriage? There are many things you have left unsaid here so this is really hard to answer. Under normal circumstances you have dated and become close for several months before you ever consider engagement/marriage and normally you would have had several kisses and/or physical contact. If you marry this man I can assure you he is going to want more than just kisses.
2007-06-08 07:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by zento1110 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you.If you love him you know it in you're heart.Trust me.If you're having doubts about being in love then don't get married.At least not right away.Some people just don't see stars when they kiss for the first time.I was 12 when I had my first kiss and that's how I felt too.
2007-06-08 07:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by mygrandparentsrthebestintheworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should do it again honestly. If this is the man your going to be with for the rest of your life you should at least like the way he kisses.
2007-06-08 07:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know how to enjoy a kiss. Try it, you will like it!!! Wet those lips and get to smacking!!
2007-06-08 07:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close your eyes, kiss with her and feel it... Unless you dislike her, if not how come you don't enjoy kissing with her? Watch some videos and learn.
2007-06-08 07:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to worry about it. Its very common and right feeling.
2007-06-08 07:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissing is not a big deal
2007-06-08 07:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were probably just nervous. don't say that you wont kiss him ever again. it will wreck your relationship.get more into it. practice more. kiss him more. you'll like it!
2007-06-08 07:09:27 · answer #11 · answered by ~*Just Silleh*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋