Am I reading too much into this?

Question

About 18 months ago, my best friend died in a car accident we had said that if either of us died we would come back and see the other person.

To cut a long story short, I have had weird goings on since. I kept thinking about going to see a medium but always got scared. Today I just had a feeling that I had to go, i goodled some numbers and it came up with the name 'silver birch' as I went to out the number in my phone I had a memo flash up with the name silver birch.

Am i reading to much into this, or should I go and see a medium and see what happens...?

I have a blackberry, and it was in a memo it just came up on the sreen!

Also forgot tomention: we used to watch most haunted together, the night after he died, they were doing the ouiegi board (sorry not spelt right) and it spelt out his name.

Just to add right or wrong: if I had to choose bewteen heaven and seeing my friend again, i know which one id go for!

Answer 1

You must go. You know your friend would want you to.
My auntie went to see one a few years ago, and it brough her great comfort.
Good luck!!!

Answer 2

I've been told that mediums are in touch with wicked spirits. If there is a possibility that it's true then I don't think its worth it personally, because they are dangerous if it's contacting wicked spirits. I certainly wouldnt have a go at ouija boards, I know of very bad experiences with them.
The 'silver birch' experience you had could just be coincidence. I've had similar experiences & I just put them down to coincidence. If you had this agreement with your friend & she could come back then she or he would leave you in no doubt & contact you directly.
I think you should go with your scared feelings and keep away from mediums.

Answer 3

Hiya there i myself am a medium and i suggest you go with your gut feeling into whether you should go or not. Our loved ones in spirit always find a way to ontact us be it moving things, making you aware of smells etc. most of all spirits find it really easy to interfear will eletrical devices so i do believe it could be spirit. i get the feeling your friend would want you to go.
remember if you go for the reading your friend might not come through so do not build your hopes up. certain spirits can only work with certain people it's an energy thing.
good luck hun. love and light xxxxx

Answer 4

Silver Birch was a philosopher from many years ago and spiritualists use his teachings a lot in their religion. If you made the deal with your friend that one of you would come back - then yes I think you should go and see a medium (a reputable one). There is nothing to be afraid of - it is just like having a phone conversation with your friend.

Answer 5

Where did the memo flash up? Was this a text received to your phone? Sorry I'm not clear on this. If so, then that is really spooky and you should see this Silver Birch medium as soon as poss.

Answer 6

invite ur friend to a dream. when u are having the dream u should be somewhere familiar ( your friend will do this for u for comfort) look around for something that's different ( like a light-switch on the wrong side of a wall) any small error will do. this will tell you that ur having a dream. when u realise this u may wake up. but keep trying, eventually you'll be able to meet with ur friend whenever he/she visits. stopping ur strange occurrences. and also giving u an insight on how to control ur dreams effectively. even nightmares. to invite ur friend to a dream, charge a foto or something with ur desire and place it under ur pillow at night. lavender scents are good because of their relaxing properties. help u get off to sleep quicker. this will work with practise

Answer 7

Those Who Practice Magic Arts

Webster defines magic as: 1 a: the use of means (as charms or spells) believed to have supernatural power over natural forces b: magic rites or incantations
2 a: an extraordinary power or influence seemingly from a supernatural source b: something that seems to cast a spell

The bible says, “Let no one be found among you who sacrifices his son or daughter in the fire, who practices divination or sorcery, interprets omens, engages in witchcraft, or casts spells, or who is a medium or spiritist or who consults the dead. Anyone who does these things is detestable to the LORD, and because of these detestable practices the LORD your God will drive out those nations before you. You must be blameless before the LORD your God.” (Deuteronomy 18:9-13) No one that does these things will be blameless before God. God cannot look upon these acts. These acts are for the wicked. These acts are practices that the bible says not to do.

He sacrificed his own son in the fire, practiced sorcery and divination, and consulted mediums and spiritists. He did much evil in the eyes of the LORD, provoking him to anger. (2 Kings 21:6) When people practice magic arts, then they are doing evil in the site of God. When people do evil, they provoke God to anger. When God is angry he pours out his wrath on you. You will not be blessed, but you will be cursed.

Outside are the dogs, those who practice magic arts, the sexually immoral, the murderers, the idolaters and everyone who loves and practices falsehood. (Revelation 22:5) This verse is comparing everyone who practices evil with dogs. Bible says magic arts are a false practice. When this verse is saying outside, it is talking about being outside of heaven. People who practice magic arts will not enter into the gates of heaven.

But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars—their place will be in the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death." (Revelation 21:8) All who practice magic arts will go to the lake of fire (HELL). This is what the bible calls the second death. God will judge all the wicked. The wicked will be judge at the white throne judgment.

If you are one of the people who practice magic arts God will forgive you. Just repent and turn from your wickedness.

Answer 8

I don't think you need a medium to help or to take your money. You know in your heart that your friend is on the other side and ok. What more do you need to know? Let your friend be at peace, he's told you he made it. Now, live your life in honor of your friend every day. Live your life to the fullest for both of you.

Answer 9

If you go to see a medium the only thing you will find is that your money is going to be thrown away on fairy tails and stories. "it is appointed ONCE for a person to be born, and after that the judgment" (paraphrased for simplicity)

Answer 10

Do, if it will put your mind at rest. Just don't tell anyone what happened, don't give anything away.

And don't worry about the strange goings-on. It was your best friend who died, right? A good friend keeps their promises. :-)

Answer 11

deep down you seem to really want to go to a medium. be brave. hopefully you will have a great experience if not you will be glad that you overcame you fear to do it in the first place. make a call make an appointment the first step it the hardest once youve done that it will get easier. good luck