My bf of 9 mnths. broke up with me & said he doesnt love me anymore, he just wants to be best friends. A few days later I was out with my friends & he texted me constantly & finally when I got back with him he said it upset him that I didnt talk back & that he had missed talking to me. He says he just cares for me as a friend but still wants to talk everyday & hang out a few times a week. When we hang out we have a lot of fun...but it hurts cuz I love him so much. I think he still loves me, but needs some time to think...what do you think?
2007-06-07 21:44:42 · 6 answers · asked by Laura G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He loves you as a friend!!! Don't try to read anything into it. He has already told you that he just wants to be friends. Just accept it and move on. I know that it will hurt, but it is probably best for you to avoid him until some time passes and the pain is not so great. It is his loss. Find you a man that will appreciate and love you. Take care!!
2007-06-07 21:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your ex-boyfriend wants all the benefits of being your boyfriend without all the committment or responsibility of it. Cut him off until he's ready to either be the boyfriend or take off, because right now, what he wants from you sounds a lot like boyfriend quality time (maybe less the sex or whatever you do, unless he wants that too). It's going hurt you too much if you don't.
Besides, if he really likes you that much, seeing you go out and be unavailable to him and so attractive to other men will make you look that much better to him, and he may just come back begging...Make him sweat a little...
2007-06-07 21:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Gorgeous 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give it a few weeks and see how things pan out... if your still talking and hanging out alot, and things look like they could get romantic again, then go for it! but if you two start looking at other guys/girls or the feelings change than maybe you were ment to be friends.... it seems like your someone he really cares about and loves, but maybe he just doesnt love you like that..
and if you get desperate, maybe you can try that whole jealousy thing by getting with another guy for a bit....
2007-06-07 21:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by tupersrooper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just accept the friendship, everything happens for a reason... maybe he feels yous work out better just as friends...
2007-06-07 21:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes you still but he doesnt want to go steady because he wanna have some time to himself, some privacy..he doesnt want to have a gf..he doesnt want to be 24/7 faithful to you..NO it doesnt mean he thinks that you are irritating..its something like a time off?to cool down for a sec?
2007-06-07 21:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him
2007-06-07 21:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋