my boyfriend makes more money then me but he refuse to treat me out or pay for anything when we go out! the funny thing is that he does not have to pay for bills or anything for that matter! all he wants to do is put money into tricking out his car! this stupid! i have talked to him about it but nothing has change! what else should i do?
2007-06-07 21:01:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the funny thing is that im the one paying like 80% of the time when we go out! we both still live with our parents! and as i said he has no bills to pay for! his $500 car payment are taking car of by his parents!
2007-06-07 21:18:12 · update #1
idk id put half in half. i like tuning up cars but u have to spend more money on ur gf lol
2007-06-07 21:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is thoroughly comprehensible which you would be annoyed approximately protecting a number of his expenses once you artwork on your money. (and asking to be repaid once you lend money isn't stingy). thinking it extremely is a cultural norm for men to pay or a minimum of split the bill on dates, i will verify why you will sense a splash used. even regardless of the undeniable fact that, in case you have been mutually for 6 months and you care approximately him and your in basic terms procuring a action picture fee ticket or meal it is in all probability no longer properly worth breaking apart over.
2016-10-09 11:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by micheletti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The time for talking is over. Your requests have been ignored. You need to choose for yourself... him (and keep spending your money on him) or find someone else who is generous with his time, energy and money. I'm sure your stingy bf is stingy all around. What keeps you with him? You deserve better and you will get it when you believe that. Good luck.
2007-06-07 21:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by nightowl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he even realize it? Maybe he's bad at math.
I'd say, discuss it beforehand who's going to pay this time for dinner. Take turns. That should split it pretty even. If he says he can't pay on his turn because he didn't bring any money - say you'll just cook some pasta for him at home, because you didn't bring any either.
2007-06-07 21:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crash his car. No I'm kidding. Do you pay for things for him? Does he ever get you gifts?
I don't really think he should have to ever pay for you it would just be nice at times...But you should NEVER expect it.
I wouldn't offer to pay his way for anything thats for sure.
2007-06-07 21:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Bo Beeta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anu ba yan!
sori na lang kung di a pilipino
2007-06-07 21:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by rain holly inocence 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you hangout.. just bring enough money for 'you' can go home.. and this time he'll be forced to pay for it.. [ahehe] and wait! for your bills.. don't let him use your electricity or water.. [haha] just be more strict on him.. never let yourself being used to much.. goodluck!^_^
2007-06-07 21:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by yeekatoox ™ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is right .u can't spend a man's money ,even he is ur bf.But the next time he want to have sex with you ,when he put off his clothes ,you can tell him that sex is not free .:)
2007-06-07 21:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by zhang jian 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he won't see reason, and you can't convince him either accept him for what he is or make another choice.
2007-06-07 21:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u deserve better. dump him! i hate cheap guys
2007-06-07 21:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋