Okay lets say I fell in love with someone who I think is gone to be a big part of my future....But he 's leaving and going all the way across the country and never coming back....BUt I just figured out today I love him.....Should I stop him....and tell him how I feel? What can make him stay....Please help...He told me he wants to stay but the last day at his house is Sunday.....AIl I have is three days .....
2007-06-07 17:26:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him immediately how you feel. It may not stop him from moving, but at least he will be able to let you know if he feels the same way about you. Then plans can be made to reunite.
2007-06-07 17:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The time is short but you can do it ..you want to show this guy that you have feelings for him its never to late to tell someone you love them but beware that he may or may not feel the same way but if you don't you will never know that either ..So here's what you do you set up 3 romantic type things /friendship in case it doesn't work ..a picnic at the beach with the sunset to set the mood and as the sun sets let him know how you feel watch his eyes they will help you know how he feels as well as his body language ..If he feels that down the road you to could have a relationship then set up to be pen pals and write keeping things light,see if you could visit,or talk on the phone with him over the weekends ..one night have coffee with him or a soda ..a moon light walk at the park might be an idea too..use these last three days to there fullest..If words are hard for you write your feeling's to him and put it in a card hand picked by you with your address in it and your phone number ..after all this if he leaves with out no acknowledgment then it wasn't meant to be ..there is a saying about love..something like this let the bird fly free and if it comes back then love was meant to be..above all be your self ..be honest with him ..and also listen to what he has to say to you,listen close ..Good Luck
2007-06-07 17:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by Pooh Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stop him not from moving but from leaving without knowing how you feel... express yourself to him in any and every way possible.. if you KNOW that him moving is good for him and his future than its best that you dont interefere unless he believes his future will be more succesfull with you in it.. but if you want to be with him sooo bad because you know you need him to survive then thats when you talk to him and figure out if the way you feel about him is the same way he feels about you.. and move to where he has to be... follow your heart.. dont make him stay because ever person has to move on so why dont you move on with him?.. dont ever hold him or anyone back..so if its that serious, the way you love him then you need to make the adjustment and leave with him... and be happy! =)
good luck!! dont just let it go because very few ppl in life find thier true llove!
♥jasmin
2007-06-07 17:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by jasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to stay then you should arrange a way for both of you to stay together. If you have somewhere for him to stay then that is probably the only way for him to stay at the moment. If he does have to move then there is still a way for you two to be together. If you truly love him then you will be patient and you two can find a way to be together.
2007-06-07 17:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel. what you say may be what he is waiting to hear. he may feel the same way. you ever ask y he leaving and wait so long to mention it to you? then again he may try to get you to go with him....
If you love him and he you, then nothing, not even distance will keep you apart. Me and my bf live 6hrs away but we still make time for each other...
2007-06-07 17:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 02:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move across the country and be with him.
2007-06-07 17:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by miyshoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him
but that may not keep him from moving
2007-06-07 17:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by Hello Mr. Blue Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay him the way u feel... don't write it out or nothin like that just say it
2007-06-07 17:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what Ross did, which is what everyone else is telling you to do.
2007-06-07 17:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by Coolguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋