I went to pay my car insurance the other day & a mom was in there with her two very young sons.
I could not believe the way she was dressed! Even the agent was embarrassed!
She was slim enough,but very out of shape,wore glasses & had straggly dirty looking hair!
This wasn't the worst of it though.In her mind,she was so sexy that her saggy midrift was bared,while her butt cheeks accually dripped down her thighs from under the short shorts!
The poor agent apologized to me when she left!I told him it wasn't his fault she forgot to get dressed that morning!
He said he was sick to his stomache because he knew her husband!
I wonder if he was wearing a cod peice & flipflops to his job!
2007-06-07 17:22:57 · 29 answers · asked by frogginmama52 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I am in a public place & someone is in my face like this,& some of you have the garbonzas to ask what is wrong with me?
I am a moral,clean,modest woman who would never make my kids believe this is correct for a lady to act like!
Just shows what this country is going to.... the dogs!
2007-06-07 18:53:39 · update #1
YESSSSS! I think that anyone who, no matter what their situation doesn't keep themselves clean is horrible. I also think that women should know when they are puking out the public. But many woment don't, like the one you mentioned. I was flying one time and my plane was delayed over and over. I noticed that as my hair started to droop and my clothes became rumpled and after many hours I finally had to wash my face to feel better, so I looked bad. My hair became frizzy because of the humidity. I noticed that people began to treat me differently. In the first hours, they were pleasant and accomodating. In the latter, they didn't even seem to notice that I was even educated and brushed me off. How you dress does matter. The eye always goes to the neglect.
PS People who say you are judging must be kidding! Too many people let their little kids act bad and they grow up to be snotty human beings. That's not judging. That is learning about the evolution of our society. Enabling people to accept a lower form of decency is not judging, it is noticing the evolution of this aspect of society and wondering why and how it got there.
2007-06-07 17:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well--while what she was wearing certainly wasn't appropriate, at least she had on SOME clothes! Who cares if she was fat--would you have made the same comments about her if she had a perfect 36-24-36 figure? Probably not...
I wouldn't have wanted to look at her, either, but I would have just averted my eyes. It's not like you see this woman every day and have to witness her clothing (or lack thereof!).
2007-06-08 10:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree the woman had bad hygiene and not the best taste in clothing. I work at a major retail store, and i can tell you i see all kinds. Nothing you can do about it.
2007-06-08 03:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by pj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We see this way too often. I try to be sympathetic because some may not be able to afford very nice clothes and often they have very low self esteem.
In the worse cases, like this one, women think letting it all hang out makes them more attractive, or even sexy.
2007-06-08 00:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Between that and the fat chicks that think that half shirts and spandex is appropriate I end up eating a LOT of Rolaids.
The other thing that gets me are people that wear flip flops as every day footwear. When did flip flops go from something you wear at the beach or the shower to every day footwear, are these people just too lazy to put on a pair of shoes?
2007-06-08 00:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Then Women are wondering why Men always think of them of Sluts, its because of acts like that.
I would have been embarrassed and politely asked her to cover up.
2007-06-08 00:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by ScarletBloodDoll 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh gosh!! Lady being mom of children should be well dressed decently.
2007-06-08 04:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by nimesh 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
LOL some people just dont have any class....I dont know what they are thinking when they look in the mirror......sad I feel for the kids....wait til they become teens......poor things will want to hide for sure
2007-06-08 00:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by T B 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, unless someone has a health condition, there is no reason for people to be saggy, fat, walking skeletons, cellulite queen, etc.
2007-06-08 00:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by Ayatsuri 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
is it really that big a deal that you need to post a question about it. you seem to have never seen an unattractive, badly dressed, slightly under toned middle aged woman before lol. not everyone has taste and sadly money cant even buy it. at least this women has a bit of confidence, she probably lacks in the intelligence sector and everything else as well.
2007-06-08 00:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by SubbYMonKeY 3 · 4⤊ 6⤋