theres this guy i really like and i look at him everyday during class. he looks in my direction sometimes but i dont know if hes looking at me. but sometimes he looks at me in the hallways, at least im sure. im really shy and not one of those confrontation kind of people. what should I do?
2007-06-07 17:19:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i see him hang out with alot of girls but i dont know if they are friends or more.....
2007-06-07 17:25:11 · update #1
DROP SOMETHING IN CLASS AND ASK HIM TO PICK IT UP.......HOT.....
2007-06-07 17:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by sweetness 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Joel V says: It is hard to tell, sometimes, when things like this come up. I know, because I'm still in HS. If I were in that position, I'd do a little bit of research. Try talking to some of the girls he hangs out with. Find out a little bit about him, maybe what he likes or what he doesn't like. See if he has any serious relationships going on. Just asking about him will get his attention. If he doesn't respond to that...drop him your number.
2007-06-15 16:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i know i'm not a freakin' guy, but this is just one of those problems that are so simple that most people imagine that it's actually a crisis.
anyway, i can't possibly even imagine how many times i've had to deal with this because i can still recall when i was too shy to go talk to the guy that i like.
well...first off, just tell him.
i mean, what else are you going to do? sit around and let this pass by with a chance?! because if it's true love, you can't just let it go away.
tell him. well, tell him if you're on talking terms with him. so as long as he thinks you're a friend, then just tell him.
and if he doensn't return your feelings, it's a simple matter of moving on, isn't it?
why wait? you might be shy, but that's not going to get you anywhere.
2007-06-08 10:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by Hero's Heroine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm like you im really shy but try to talk to him been friendly, cause this will boost your confidence as a bonus. Coming across as friendly instantly makes someone like you so its a first step. Then as you build up a relationship and get to no eachother you might see signals that he likes you (like always smiling at you, been quite flirty) but if he starts treating you as if your like "one of the boys" your just a friend.....or you might go off him completely cause he isn't what you expected! You need to come out of your shell a little i've done it and its so much easier to talk to new people, but i'm still not one of those gobby ones, u no who i mean :-D Good luck!!
2007-06-08 03:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mat 105 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want it you gotta take control cuz if he hasnt done something yet then hes just as afraid of confronting you then you are of him. ask him what he got on the last test of how hes doing in class, this is a commonground area that you two can relate to. then start making light conversation, if hes into you he'll respond and then you can gauge how to take if from there. most importantly be yourself dont try to act smart and dont act slutty cuz if things start to work you dont wanna show yourself as a fraud. Good luck
2007-06-07 17:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by amartinez8420 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying about it and go talk to him. Think about 3 questions ahead of time and pick the one that fits the moment when you do. Who cares about other girls, if it's meant to be they'll all fade into the background. Quit talking about it and just go do it...
=Dave
2007-06-15 16:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by spoilerdave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should smile and in tha hallways wen hi passes by just keep ur eyes on him wiel his lookoin but dont do it in a bad way not a look that says what u looking at wiyh a smile and just keep on doing that thats my story with my girl..... well if ur not good lookin and dont think u dont have a chance i would do something els.............well good luck u should post a pic
ps..
2007-06-07 17:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by mr_lil_slick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I so know what talking about. Okay in my opinion there are about 3 options. 1. Go through life without knowing. ( I hate that one) 2. Ask one of your BFF's to ask one of his BFF's. 3. Get his digits, put on a funny voice and drop a hint.
2007-06-07 17:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by chickidy_hotbabe 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh god. This sounds like they typical primary/high school romance all over again. Yes, I can tell you he likes you. This is from personal experience from back when I was in high school.
*BTW: yes, I know I'm not a guy but I couldn't help answering this.*
2007-06-07 17:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by Lighthouse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy too. I just saw some questions on what to do, if you are shy. Have confidence, if you do not have confidence, you will get no where in life.
2007-06-07 17:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
make the first move and ask him to help you on something you dont quite understand or even better ask him what is the hw or something to start up a conversation!
2007-06-15 17:14:10 · answer #11 · answered by Stefanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋