i've been with the same guy for almost 3 months now.
we've had sex a few times and he told me he loves me.
he is really attached to me and i don't want to break his heart.
but i met a man at work yesterday.
he's in the military and we were on the phone for hours yesterday night.
we've texted all day.
i barely ever see my boyfriend now and he's gonna be a navy seal in a few years. the guy i met is 5 years older than me and is gonna be stationed here for at least another year.
i felt so weird when i talked to this guy.
like the feeling is hard to describe.
just sitting at a table with him [ i work in a restraunt ]
made me smile and happy he told me i had beautiful eyes, and he liked my smile.
and his friends were sitting right there.
he told me i was impressive on the phone last night
he's the only guy i've ever given my number to upon just meeting them.
i know i'm not in love with him or anything.
but what is this feeling i have.
i just turned 18 and he is 23.
2007-06-07 17:19:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the feeling you have is called lust, because you are obviously a tramp, your boyfriend should just dump you for being the way you are
eventually when you grow up some guy will do to you what you are trying to do to your boyfriend, perhaps then you will learn
2007-06-07 17:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious, if you like you're boyfriend now or love him stick with him. But you only been going out with him for 3 months it's not as if it's been 3 years. If you find interest in this new guy go with him. Or kinda see him on the side with no sex while you're boyfriend is away and see what devolpes. 3 months isn't that long to be serious imo unless it was love at first sight.
2007-06-07 17:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by atdiw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not saying this to be offensive towards you, but you should not stay with your boyfriend if youre going to be this weak towards a smile and a few nice words from a new person's lips. it really is not fair to him.
im not being hard on you. you are young and this is what goes on when youre young; youre still figuring out how you, let alone the world, tick.
but it is not fair for the old guy to invest in you and have you already testing the waters elsewhere.
2007-06-07 17:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Colleen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think for you to feel this way maybe the other guy is giving you an extra something that made you feel this way about him.... i mean its good that he and u talk for a good time and he makes u smile.... that's great.... maybe yoUr bf Ur with ur not feeling the same for which is OK and can happen to anyone if you truly ain't happy with Ur bf say it cant work... . but b4 you do anything make sure the other guy is kook and u understand him and u truly like him//// well TKO and if u need anything hit me up at ma profile bay
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2007-06-07 17:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay wth the guy you are with, I've done the same thing, and the only thing I got out of was a great relationship, and loss of alot of respect
2007-06-07 17:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by The_Cowboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impressive?? The new guy is looking for ONE thing. You should really think about the relationship between you and your boyfriend and be true to yourself...and to your boyfriend. If you don't want to date him anymore, end it now.
2007-06-07 17:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him down easy honey
2007-06-07 17:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave your boyfriend
2007-06-07 17:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by sexymama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your fellings...
2007-06-07 17:40:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋