They're always trying to make their daughters look good, but it's a waste of time and money. How can I let them know that their efforts aren't doing any good?
2007-06-07 16:33:01 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
1.make a jet out of paper written something and fly that to their house.
2.make ablank call to her mother saying that its waste.
3.make people laugh on them.
2007-06-07 18:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by sunny 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋
It is not your place to judge them. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Whenever you want to tell something hurtful to someone, stop and think - what is the purpose of my hateful words? Is it going to do any good? Am I just taking out my own frustrations and low self esteem on others? Do I want to put down someone to make myself feel better? Do I want to be responsible for my hurtful words setting a motion of events that will result in this person having low self esteem, being upset, and maybe down the line cause them to turn to drugs, alcohol, or attempt suicide because of something mean said to them which has stuck with them for years and eventually drove them over the edge? Sometimes people go for years bottling up emotions and pain, remembering every hurtful thing they've been told, and then another person comes along and adds to the pile of pain and that one insult can be the breaking point which could lead to disastrous results. A girl can be told she's ugly and have her self esteem ruined forever. She may end up putting up with an abusive boyfriend because she believes she doesn't deserve any better since she's been told she's not good enough by some arrogant pompous jerk. Even if someone doesn't seem like the type to take insults so close to heart, you never know, and why take that chance. Do you want to have it on your conscience that you could have contributed to a person's life being destroyed?
There is so much hate in this world as is, why would you want to add to it? Why not contribute love and kindness to the world and people around you instead? You will be a much happier person for it too. Being mean spirited towards others shows that you have emotional poison which hurts you and not just the people you direct it towards even if you don't acknowledge it.
2007-06-07 16:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ 2 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you mention anything to the neighbors at all?? Seems to me you would be better off spending your time trying to be a better person. I think all the effort your parents took to teach you manners failed.
2007-06-07 20:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by pj 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the mind of the beholder. What you believe is homely -others may see as lovely. Perhaps you could find better things to "help out" with. There are tons of volunteer opportunities in just about every community...your query demonstrates that you have the time and desire to make a positive difference in the world...
2007-06-07 16:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Why on earth would you want to? How is it your business?
The fact that the parents love their daughters makes them beautiful in their eyes.
It's not up to you to expound on standards of beauty for others.
You'd be better to keep your opinions to yourself, unless Miss Universe asks you to be a judge, in which case, you'll have your chance then.
2007-06-07 17:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by thing55000 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I would hold my tongue even if you are about ready to scream at them! No use in trying if they won't listen or at least there is no use in making an enemy from a neighbor! (they would probably be really offended if you said that even if it's true!)
2007-06-08 02:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Zeppelin333 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're probably asking themselves the same question about you right now, and trying to figure out how to approach you about it.
Happy Friday!
2007-06-08 03:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should tell them you've notice all the spots on their daughters faces and give them the number of a local plastic surgeon that would be able to help them with it.
2007-06-07 19:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by steracrudy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree, send a telgram, but a normal person that won't tell on you! Maybe a good friend they never ever heard about!
2007-06-08 11:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by suspicious minds. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you think it is any of your business? when you have children, your children will be the most beautiful babies in the world. every parent thinks this. to them, they DO look good.
why would you bother to hurt them? that means you are not a good neighbor.
2007-06-07 16:37:27 · answer #10 · answered by Louiegirl_Chicago 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Just stand next to the girls... They'll look like Miss Universe, I'm sure. Surface ugly can be fixed, the ugly you suffer from... In your soul, will follow you to your grave.
2007-06-07 16:47:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋