My dad was in prison and has been released 2 yrs he's still on paper. Anyway he is into a bad habit of drinking and riding his bike or driving. Well today he showed up at my sisters on his bike and he was drunk. And I told him he didn't need to be drinkin and driving. He started going off on me about everything. I lost my job about 3 weeks ago It was because a supervisor didn't like me He was yelling at me like It was my fault. He told me I needed to find a man to take care of me since I can't hold a job because I won't kiss the boss ***. I live with my grandmother I do pay my way I pay rent and bring groceries in but he insisted that I run my grandmas house and she doesn't have a say so in her own house and she won't tell me no because I yell at her. We get along good we have a arguement once in a great while. He tries to run my grandmas house and I stick up for her. Alot more was said than that. Am I wrong cause I care? And don't want to see him or anyone els dead or locked up agai
2007-06-07 16:25:07 · 8 answers · asked by chelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No you have every right to be mad/ disappointed.
Have you asked him how many times he has to be incarcerated to learn the laws?
As far as your grandma's as long as she has no problem with what you are doing or how you are doing it, your father is clearly just grasping at anything to make you feel as bad as himself.
I really don't understand people like your father. i know some people who have been locked up . 100% of them say they are never going back and would rather die. Only about 10% are actually keeping their noses clean and obeying every letter of the law.
The rest are just like your father consantly ***** up! They really don't care about them selves or their family. They are still drinking, partying, and slangin. I just don't get it!
Good luck and don;t let your father drag you down!
2007-06-07 16:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kathrine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad does the same thing or he makes my little bro drive him which makes me furious too. No your not wrong, let him be mad and yell. whatever, don't let it bother you . The only reason he turned to you and started telling you what you needed to do was b/c he wanted to take the focus off himself. He needs to grow up and realize he could kill himself or someone else, even worse a child in another can. Just let it go alcoholics always think they are right and always have a way to justify it they think. Hope it helps to at least you know aren't the only one going through similar things. And good luck getting back on your feet with a job.
2007-06-08 00:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right to tell your father not to drive drunk, whether he drove up on a motorcycle or in a caddy. Drunk is drunk. Don't even think twice about it - you were right. About all the other stuff - he was drunk. He may think all those things anyway but he had to spew them out at you because he was drunks and drunks think they can get away with being mean.
2007-06-11 22:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you do have a right to be wrong. your just having arguement with him because you care about him and you want the best for him. And sometime when you care about someone, it's ok to be mad at them. But sometime you can try taking him to rehab mabe and try helping him. And if he wont go tell him the reason why.
2007-06-07 23:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be mad. drunk driving is no joke hell turn him in he obviously hasnt learned any lessons in prison. dont let him derail what u are doing or ur future plans. u do u u cant educate him he thinks he knows it all yet he is a drunk who has no morals otha wise he wouldnt b doin what he is doin. good luck honey
2007-06-07 23:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have right to be mad.. If this is continuing you just waste your life. to be a cheerful person you should leave people like that.......
about your boss you just report him to police station I think. It's just break a human right.
2007-06-07 23:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by padeitan_chen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be telling him right back and be telling him I see prison didn't make him into a better person and I bet he'll be going back.
2007-06-07 23:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to be mad, and have every right to be...
he's wrong and he knows that in that alcohol soaked brain...
if you think he will continue to drink and drive, tell the police and they will watch him... he needs to hit rock hard bottom before he stops
2007-06-07 23:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋