Well, I recently moved to a different part of the country than before. I left behind a great school, awesome friends, and a wonderful guy. Now, the guy and I are just friends technically, but I've liked him since before we even started talking. We talk all the time, and we even went to formal together, but I have no idea if he ever felt the same way about me as I did about him. Should I tell him how I felt (still feel, but no hope now) about him, so I don't always wonder what might of been?
2007-06-07 16:19:46 · 18 answers · asked by Bre 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes
2007-06-07 16:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by dounut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definately yes. Do it. You will always wonder. Nothing bad can happen if you tell him, except that he will say he didn't feel that way. If he says that, just keep in mind that he's your friend and that things happen for a reason. Who knows, maybe things will turn out to surprise you. You definately don't want to live with regret.
2007-06-07 23:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, you should tell him, but protect yourself from hurt a bit by saying something like, 'You do know I've always had a mad crush on you, right???" That makes it an open-ended thing and he can take it as something that's over, or he can respond about how he feels about you.Then no matter what he says, you are fine.
2007-06-07 23:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by rosebeau46 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can tell him but if u arent gonna see him then it shouldnt matta but u might start talkn to him online n keep in touch incase u do move back n he has feelins ..dont make any promises u knw u cant keep but jsut let him know that if u come back n ur both single then mayb u can get together n see wht happens
2007-06-07 23:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. What if is so bad. It's better to know.
Even if he doesn't feel the same at least u will get
closure. Be blessed
c/o 08
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2007-06-07 23:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya..but dont tell him u still do..cus that might make your friendship akward..just when you're talking to him on instant messenger..or texting him..or talkin to him on the phone..just be like "you know whats sorta funny?..i used to like you" or somethign like that and see what he says..that way it wont put a strain on your friendship and you ca get a straight answer out of him
2007-06-07 23:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by shelby m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it better to tell the person how you feel. It's always worked for me. You have nothing to lose.
2007-06-07 23:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by placn13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course, yeah he may be living somewhere else but if you two are ment to be then a long distance relationship would work.
2007-06-07 23:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by sports_4_elephants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. tell him. but be honest w. him. tell him that you dont want it to screw up the relationship. be honest. u know him very well and i think you should be honest. he should understand. if he doesnt then hes not the u think he was.
2007-06-07 23:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it will miss up the friendship you now have
2007-06-07 23:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by ear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋