I am 15 going on 16. Towards the end of the school year a met a boy, cute, sweet, but supposedly a player. When we first began tlking people warned me that he plays girls, changes his mind on them too fast. When i tlked to him he told me that evrythng wasnt true, nd he was sincere about it to, he said i should get to kno him myslf. He told me he liked me and it was obvious he did. He would send me texts all day, during school, on weekends we talked continuously for awhile. He rlly began growing on me, and i began to rlly like him back. Everything was rlly good until a couple days ago when he just stopped, stop txting stopped calling stoped leaving me mys comments stop having real conversations on aim. 2day on his mysapce he posted a blog about how he loves this girl, another girl. And how he is in love with her and she obviously loves him back. I feel relly stupid for every beliving himand to actually think that he liked me. i feel stupid for ever liking him back. im truly hurt. :[
2007-06-07 16:14:47 · 10 answers · asked by felicia fo sho 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk it off.
How can you say it was "obvious" that he was sincere and liked you and so on. Here you are defending him when he played you like the others. You are far better off without him and are lucky it hadn't gone farther than it did before he showed his true colours. The sooner you realize this and take it to heart, the better you'll be.
2007-06-07 16:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was going to do that now I don't think having a relationship with him would have been good for you. That would have probably lead to bigger heart break on your part. Think about it you figured out what kind of guy he is now. Not saying its not hurting; that will pass in time. For now deal with the hurt in a way that works for you ( keeping busy, thinking about/ checking out other guys, hanging around your house eating whatever you comfort food is and watching a movie ( only do that for a day or two .. no more , most important .. do get out and see what else is out there) . After if I were you I would move on. There are many other guys out there that are really worth your time.
2007-06-07 16:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jaylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first things first stop beating yourself up for it sometimes it takes things like this for us to learn from them. I have been there not once not twice and certainly not thrice and to tell you the truth its not gonna be the last time your going to feel this way.Even in your late teens that's when it starts to kick in and you'll feel it even more now i know when people tell you things about the person you like we tend to think "they dint want to see us happy" but truth of the matter is that there really tryna look out for us. Now whats done is done so leave him alone let him have who ever he has found and let them be happy together he is not the last guy on earth.your still young focus on school trust me it'll all pay of in the end. He is not worth your pain,tears and agony.Keep it moving sweetheart your growing into a young woman so as you grow, grow with your mistakes and learn from them ok. i wish you the best
2007-06-07 16:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by lina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad for trying to give him a chance. More than likely, all his gear and toys are paid for by his parents and you do not need some weak dude like that in your life. It is good this happened to you early on, now you know what to look for. You should go and hang out with your girls because they were more than likely less important than the guy at that time. Don't feel stupid. His is coming.
2007-06-07 16:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by Foohy_001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over him, do the things you did before you met him, learn from the expereince and grow. You are young and I wish I can tell you this won't happen again, but it does. Just know that someone else will come along eventually. You are the better person, he will get what he deserves
2007-06-07 16:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life goes on. Perhaps sooner than you think, the pain of this will pass.
To cope, you can talk with your friends, spend time doing fun things, and don't let yourself mope about over this.
Just don't let the pain of this relationship's demise sour you on further relationships.
2007-06-07 16:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Clifton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just bc its ur first time being hurt by a boy dont make it less painfull..u be hurt n then u move on. dont let no boy make u cry that long. it hurts but it will pass..
2007-06-07 16:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-06-07 16:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look ask him to be friends. And maybe after a while you two will get back together! :)
2007-06-07 16:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by Alli b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET REVENGE
then move on
2007-06-07 16:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋