My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. The first year was just plain perfect and happy. About 8 months ago, he began using Crystal Meth. From the beginning he hid it from me. I'm not stupid, I knew. I didn't say anything because I thought he was just trying. It was random at first, but after 3 months, it became every day for a week, stop for a week. I always thought that if he could stop, he wasn't addicted. I started every other weekend with him and also thought it would help him be more open with me. Now he does every day, and a few days without. The last few months, he is always angry at me for the stupidest, small things. He claims that even if they are small, they're significant. I tell him that he's not the same person anymore, and I think the meth is the problem. He instantly outrages saying, "You have a problem too!" He's even kicked me out a few times so we don't have to talk about it. How can I help him before he hits bottom and without getting kicked out?
2007-06-07 15:21:57 · 6 answers · asked by DancinGirl 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I understand why he reacts the way he does (defensive, denial, puts blame on someone else, shuts out the situation), but I already know that. I just want to know how we can get beyond the reaction, because it just happens over and over with no resolution, and move on to a solution. But he won't listen to me or my concern or my solution ideas.
2007-06-07 15:27:04 · update #1
You don't!!!!!!!!!
Just try to slip him plenty of calcium so his teeth not rot out.
But, if he not want to quit, he not going too, and in time he will not work and you can pay for his habit.
So, bottom line if you want to help; Calcium and Money.
2007-06-07 15:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Snaglefritz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok in no way been a meth addict yet I even have been a crack addict i'm going on 7 years clean now. to answer question it may desire to be many stuff why a guy or woman could start to take drugs of any type no one believes of their coronary heart that they are going to alter into an addict and a few flow by way of there addicition believing that they do no longer seem to be addicts. you're between the fortunate few who had the desire to quit after the 1st time no longer all and sundry has which will potential.
2016-11-27 00:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is give them same quantity they used to take BUT with lower purity in order the solve the psychological addiction. Day by day, the actual quantity of meth your friend actually take may be cut to smaller which can be easily given up.
Better not to let him know the actual purity is lowered.
2007-06-07 21:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go. Don't be the one to keep thinking he will change.
Just let him have his addiction and you go find another life without him. Do not feel sorry for him either. He did it to himself so if that is what he wants then let him have it.
I know I am hard hearted. I have seen too many addicted and know very well they are the ones that have to do something about it. People can help but only after the one addicted has begun to help[ themselves.
2007-06-07 16:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very tough. Your boyfriend needs help FAST. This may not happen in your case, but meth users tend to begin to abusing their wives/girlfriends. You are falling into a dangerous trap and you need to tell someone fast. The only thing I can think of is get him busted. It will piss him off but it's the only way out. You need to think about yourself first.
2007-06-07 15:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by CourtneyLee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't think you can until he actually wants to get off it. maybe try an intervention, although i don't have any experience.call a hotline and ask.
2007-06-07 15:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋