is it bad that i fell hatred enough to wish someone would die???no joke.?

Answer 1

You are not the only one who has ever felt like that. It is what you do with that anger that matters.

Answer 2

Is it bad? It's not really a case of good or bad but the fact that person has control over that much of your energy and emotion is not healthy for You.

If there is someone, a friend, pastor, online counseling, something you may want to discuss it because it needs to be expressed and dealt with in a more productive way and that's what counseling can teach you. It's not bad, if you feel it, you feel it, but there are other ways of dealing with it.

In learning how to deal with this in a more positive, productive matter will become useful the next time something like this happens you will have that training to draw upon.

Answer 3

It is not bad. There are no right or wrong feelings. They are yours. It is what you do with them that matters.

I have been in your place. Both times my husband or significant other cheated on me and I prayed that they would die together with their new one in a burning car wreck and their bodies could not be identified. A little anger there!

It took a long time and a lot of therapy (other issues, too), but I finally dealt with both events. I have said this here before and I will probably say it again, but it really made the difference for me.

"Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die." (now, isn't that stupid?)

Good luck.

Answer 4

A passing thought,
a desire
a plan
the intentions
the execution of the plan

Just where are you in this progression? Truthfully.

Is it possible for you to desire this person to be out of your life, without intensely desiring their demise?

If you are really this far along in the progression, you need help. If you feel you could endanger your own life or that of others, call 911 for someone to talk to. It really can be THAT SERIOUS.

If you are lower on the list, consider talking it over with an adult or a counselor, hate can take over your life and harm YOU, more than it harms the other person it is aimed at.

Answer 5

Sad to say, this happens often in this world.
The person who has offended you or hurt you may be clueless to the pain you are feeling. Can you talk to them like you have got some sense w/o attacking them?
If not, then just try to not let it bother you anymore than it has & look inside yourself, work on your own personality so you don't offend as they have done.
This is not an easy task. When in pain, sometimes you cannot see through it.

Read below about the benefits of making peace... even if the other person is not civil, you can be free from the grief it has caused:

Answer 6

What happens when you don"t like something? You either ignore it , put it aside or just forget it. Wishing could lead you to do something that you could really regret in the future. So be cool and forget it!

Answer 7

Ah ... yes. Definitely. Now put down the knife Johnny.

Come on dude. What have they done that is so bad to you? Do you really think that they deserve to die? Just take some time to cool your jets. No one deserves to die.

Answer 8

We all wish someone in our life would just die.
But if your mad at someone you can just think of another way to take out your anger.
Thought never act on killing or hurting someone otherwise you could get in a lot of trouble.

Answer 9

yes that is very bad . it is a huge drain on your system . as well it is a sin . you should learn to do as Jesus Christ taught us and love your enemy . i know it can be very hard i too have had some people that i thought i would like to put in front of a firing squad but i have forced myself to just not allow that kind of thinking to go on . sure from time to time it comes and goes but i wont allow it to be there with out me fighting it .

Answer 10

No, Ive felt the same way before, Hoever we DONT act on it, we just wish.