How can I make my husband want sex more? He rather be chating all night than coming to bed.?

Question

Maybe he is not that interested in me anymore. I really don't know what to do.... Can anyone help me??

Answer 1

It sounds like he's (at the very least) found someone online that's sparked his interest. Watch out: I know guys like this that, married or not, will hook up with random girls on the internet and wonder later why their life is always turning to shite.
What does he do when you come into the room if he's chatting? Does he hide the IM? Sounds really suspicious to me. Don't jump through hoops for him or any guy like this. If he can't be honest about anything he feels MAY be lacking in his life, he's not worth keeping around.
Good luck hun.

Answer 2

All I have to say, if he prefers having sex with you if you are willing then the obvious reason he is chatting on line, he has an affair. Ask him point blank, if he really loves you he should be spending time with you. If he is evasive and will not give you a straight forward answer then try to find out what he is doing on line. I don't know your entire situation, if you have kids at home, but if he really is more into the computer and if he is not willing to discuss the why and how, not willing to give it up, suggest counseling. Sadly these days, this is a common complaint from us woman, the guys are into the computer more then us. If he will not change his ways and no kids are involved I would suggest a trial separation to see how he would feel if you are not around.
My ex husband did spend every waking moment in-front of his PC, we are divorced now, I so much happier now being away from this refer to me having to compete with an on line world.
Trust me, there are great guys out there who would rather be with you then in a virtual world.
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Answer 3

Sounds to me like your hubbie there is chating all night because hes got someone like " woman wise " chatting with him and hes into that thing right now, put your foot down and tell him you want some time for you two and some alone time at that, with no internet. If you don't put your foot down then your going to lose him, because like alot of men on here they spend thier time with all these net woman that are just lonely and want some attention.

Answer 4

When he's chatting with other guys call him aside into another room where just you and he are. Let your hands do the talking.
Get him all worked up and then tell the other that you and he has a hot date. Set a time limit at to how long other can stay at your pad. Remember he belongs to you and you belong to him. Enjoy what you both have together.
I was married for 33 years and when she passed I knew I had lost my love.

Answer 5

Hmmm, that doesn't sound good. You can't make a guy want to have sex. Either he does or he doesn't, although I rarely hear about a guy not wanting to partake of that activity. It is possible that he is having a "cyber affair." Sorry I couldn't be of more help. Good luck to you.

Answer 6

Well if you're slim enough just be naked as a jaybird when he comes home from work. Act perfectly natural as if you weren't nude. Make sure everything wiggles with every your every move. Get or do your own bikini wax to give him something more to see.

Answer 7

let him know what you want turn off the lights put on some mood music (whatever gets you going) either get naked or put on a sexy nightie and seduce him in the living room! your bedroom isnt the only place to have some fun.you know what he likes give it to him!have fun!good luck!

Answer 8

go on vacation, get away from the computer. do fun new things. go skinydipping, make out in a park in the middle of the day. surprise him!

Answer 9

he is doing the cybers on the computer already, he have a girlfriend in chat

Answer 10

slip the computer plug.