I just started talking to a guy whos 14 years older than me ... hes great and has alot of respect for women .... but im jus scared hes too old ... what should i do?
2007-06-07 12:49:20 · 7 answers · asked by ~*Lynn*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as it's legal, I say go for it. My boyfriend of 2 years was 16 years older than me (I was 20, he was 36 when I met) and we had a fantastic relationship. I only broke up with him when I moved to Hawaii.
Age is a number, emotional connection is where it's at.
2007-06-07 13:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by Frenzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old you are. If you are under 18 please be careful. I wouldn't get serious with him if you are under 18 until you get over 18. If he truely loves you then he can wait. It can be trouble for the both of you.
Age isn't important if you both share the same interests, values, and beliefs. Make sure he's not a liar. He may be putting on an act to get you.
Be hesitant about his motives and don't be quick to get into a relationship, but don't let his age hold you back.
2007-06-07 20:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by misstsukino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is 11 years older than I am. But it totally depends on your age and what you feel comfortable with. I, personally, think 14 years is a bit much.
2007-06-07 19:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_lil_cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are.
If you are 28 and he's 42, it's no big deal.
If you are 14 and he's 28, that's something else.
The Muslims have good advice on the age ratio of the woman to man: The woman should be half the age of the guy plus seven years.
2007-06-07 19:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are 18 or older age should not matter just as long as they love each other. My fiancee and I are 12 years apart and we are very happy. (My fiancee is 35 and I am 24). Just follow your heart it does not matter what other people think. I know people who were 30 years apart.
2007-06-07 20:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by sweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are not too young then enjoy --- age truly is just a number --- as long as you enjoy each other's company and do things together what is the problem??
2007-06-07 19:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
Unless you are like 30, then he sounds too old
if you are under about 25, we know what he's after
2007-06-07 19:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by AW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋