NO thats not gonna happen.
some people go for it...but not me!
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2007-06-07 12:49:23
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answered by Bernice 3
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Marriage is just one type of committed relationship. The problem with sex before marriage is that women, due to a rush of hormones after sex, oxycotin get attached to men, even the wrong guy. Sex does not make a man attracted to a woman. Many other complex factors do.
So when a woman is attached, engaged in her mind to a man, wants children, to spend the rest of her life with him, and his mind is what type of chick does he want to date in two months after he dumps her, it hurts a lot.
Marriage, or even proposing, is good, because it shows that a man is going to catch a woman when she falls, and when she has emotions, he won't use it against her. Break ups are a lot easier like that, at least they tried.
I have seen countless people hurt because of sex outside a committed context.
2007-06-07 19:53:43
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answered by Madame Y 2
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Would you ever buy a car without a test drive? And, its a lot easier to get rid of a car you hate than a husband you hate!
Seriously I don't have a problem with; it but try refrain from hopping in the sack with every guy you happen to meet. It will make you feel used, and guys will label you as an easy lay. Wait until you have a real, meaningful relationship with someone that you, at least think, might be "the one". Then it will feel special for both of you when you take the relationship to a more intimate level.
2007-06-07 20:00:46
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answer #3
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answered by Flying Dragon 7
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Well my opinion is if u think u r ready for sex then go ahead,but u always have to think about the consiqunces of pregnancy a STD,or n e thing...Most religious ppl wouldnt agree with my answer and say they should wait,but i feel its all up to u..i personallly would wait for marriage bcuz it is very emotional and u want to do it with sumeone u really love,and it shouldnt be a guy/girl forcing u. its a painful but joyful experience and should be done with two lovers,plus if u have a husband he can not just walk out on u bcuz he took vows to be there for u no matter what..good luck!
2007-06-07 19:53:07
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answer #4
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answered by precious 3
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I honestly think there is nothing wrong with it. But you also have to think to your self what do you think about sex before marriage. Do you want to wait and save your self for the one person you will marry?
Look anymore sex before marriage is common, and i have found that some guys, will wait, while most will not. Don't let anyone male or female push you into having sex if you are not ready for it. Because If you do you will regret it. If you do decide to have sex before you married be safe about it, get on some form of birth control, and use condoms. Also talk to you OBGYN, he/she will tell you the risks of having unproteted sex.
2007-06-07 19:51:21
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answer #5
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answered by midori_mika 2
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NO and here's why: once you give your body to a man you give him power over you emotionally and you lose your perspective. You can't make a rational decision about him any more. You might not even like him later, but you won't know it. Trust me I've seen it a million times. Women are just fooling themselves if they think they can have sex first and then decide if a man is right for them later. If you've had sex, you are already his! (for better or worse)
2007-06-07 19:55:26
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answer #6
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answered by Tightwad 1
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Wrong! Against morality and against God's law.
Sex before marriage only "benefits" the guy!
2007-06-07 19:54:07
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answered by trebor namyl hcaeb 6
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I do not think it is wrong to have sex before you are married as long as you are in love with each other.
2007-06-07 20:30:24
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answered by sweetheart 3
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wow u asking this ? made me think back of when i used to go to church
i believe its wrong and should be a thing that a husband a wife enjoy... but its something that most people just look at as a fun activity and dont seem to think about their futures
2007-06-07 19:55:00
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answer #9
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answered by TJ 2
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Sex out of wedlock is a sin against " GOD " and your church.
Wait till your married.
2007-06-07 19:50:29
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answered by TAMPABAYLADY 4
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No for me. It will be until I find the man who is willing to wait until we're married to have me all his. Then I'll know if he's worth my everything.
2007-06-07 19:52:40
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answered by Brazileira-Mex 2
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