What do you think?

Question

Ok, so I've liked this one guy for awhile, and he knows that I like him. Some of my friends think that he likes me, and his friend makes it seem like he likes me, but I don't think he does. Do you think I should ask him out or not? I want to, but I'm scared that he will say no, what do you think?

Answer 1

Tips from a guy:

I like when women ask me out. Even if I say no. I think most (if not all) straight guys like to get attention from women.

Go for it. On the other hand; if he says no, don't keep asking him. It's time to move on.

If he says yes, don't play the needy type and start talking about your relationship and how he feels about you. Guys like their personal space and freedom. Especially early on in the relationship. I'm sure if I met a girl that started off that way -- that would scare me off.

Hope this helps

Answer 2

OH SAME SH*T HAPPENED TO ME! Except I was the guy. Here's what the girl did. She started talkin to my friend, who thought she was on his nuts when the whole time she was using his nuts to jump on mine. GREAT! look what I'm saying is get cozy with the guy's friend and dont' say you like his friend just stay around himi so you can get to the guy you like. If the guy truly likes you, he'll get as competitive as a GORILLA KING!


BTW make sure you don't get yourself caught in a love triangle, those suck OD

Answer 3

Just ask him to the movies or the mall or somewhere simple. It doesn't have to be formal. Just to get the two of you alone. If he says no and doesn't have a legit excuse then you know he's not interested and if he says yes you're a little bit closer.

Answer 4

To be honest, It's not my persay to ask a guy out. I will say that flirting with him cant hurt, and if he finds it amusing, or flirts with you; challenge him with gestures of facial expressions or talking slowly. Remember always look directly in the eye, makes him know you are serious, and that you are commanding the floor. playing hard to get, and still be in his reach will entice him to ask you out. If he doesnt, wear something wishing he did! lol

Answer 5

Ask him to go out with you! U have nothing to loose and don't be scared because the only way to find out if he likes u is to ask him that!

Answer 6

Do it on a friendly basis, that way you dont have the whole "omg its a date" in the back of your head and you wont totally flip out. Then you get a sneak peak of him without the need to worry

Answer 7

Just ask him if he likes you or not. His friends make it seem like he likes you and you like him. I'd say it would be in your favor to ask him and get the records straight.

Answer 8

So he says no what is going to happen to you...nothing.

Best thing to do is have a rebuttal ready.

eg.

YOU....
"I was wandering if you would like to go to the movies with me"

HIM...
"No thanks, I'm busy"

YOU...(pointing to your friends)
"I told them you would not want to go but they insisted I ask you to see if we could make up a foursome"

You safe face and walk away.

OR

If you want to shock him you could say

"I told her you would not be interested, three way sex is not for everybody"

Answer 9

hmmm okay i wont tell u to take the risk coz we all know how c*appy tht is!..
u can spare urself the embarassment from asking him personally and just ask someone around him.. if he likes u.. take the step.. if not.. just move on to the next one ;)

Answer 10

ok that just happened to me 2 weeks ago... ok if i were you i would do it yourself and not in front of his friends because:

1st: Guys like girls with confidence and:
2nd: Guys feel persured and embrassed in front of their friends

♥ Good Luck ♥