I want me and one of my best friends to go from friends to lovers, and suggestions? We're really close. We both love each other very much, but i don't know how to transform our relationship?
2007-06-07 11:19:04 · 20 answers · asked by Rae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get married.
2007-06-07 11:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a very tricky transition. Are you sure you're willing
to lose the friendship if something goes wrong in the lover
department (as it's apt to do). Romantic love is such a
little fish in the pan of the human experience. It eventually
diffuses into friendship anyway, so why take the chance?
If you're still willing to risk losing the person forever, then
you have to wait for that unspoken moment where the
expression in the eye contact changes...from you friend's
end. This can't be forced. It will be longer and different
from before. Everything around you will become quiet
and you won't be able to burst into laughter as usual.
Just keep the thought and don't push it unless there's
a palpable change from your friend's side towards you
too. It just has to be mutual.
2007-06-07 18:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by going on a couple dates just like you'd do with anyone else.
2007-06-07 18:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go out (just the two of you). Then ask him what he really feels about the two of you and so on and so on.
2007-06-07 18:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by db 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start holding hands, cuddling, kissing, etc. your friendship will soon transform to something more.
2007-06-07 18:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It usually starts with kissing.So give him or her a passionate kiss and it will go from there.
2007-06-07 18:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to kiss him and test his reaction, if he responds well you just might get lucky!!
2007-06-07 18:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by serendipity_siren 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex...thats the only difference; but make sure you guys stop cheking out other people
2007-06-07 18:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by Reyna 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A good bottle of wine should help!!
2007-06-07 18:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by Paper Pusher 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are responsible adults then sex is the answer.
2007-06-07 18:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by brwnidjkmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋