Ok I like this guy named Ryan and I asked him to get with me a couple of weeks ago but he said no cause he doesn't want to get with anyone cause it's summer. I called him today because i wanted to invite him to a party then after i found out that he is with my enemy Jazmin!!!!! I was heart broken!!!! What should I do now that they are both invited to my party but I was planning to ask Ryan to get with me @ the party!!!!!!
I need help Quick!!!!!!
2007-06-07 11:03:29 · 15 answers · asked by Aaliiiiiiiyyyyaaaaahhhhhh :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have both of them come to the party. Then when he's there, just flirt with him. Don't be overly obnoxious, just be yourself, except a slightly more flirtatious version of yourself. =] Seriously, don't worry. What happens happens. And you should probably be glad that he doesn't want to be with you right before summer starts, because during the summer, there are way to many chances for confusion, and way to much temptation. So flirt, be friendly, and, most importantly, do what feels right to you. Good luck!!! I'm sure you'll be fine. Oh, and the most important thing of all? Have fun!!!!!!!!
2007-06-07 11:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, why did you invite your "enemy" to the party? Secondly, move on. Why would you want to be with this "Ryan" person if he is with someone that you supposedly dislike so much to call her your enemy? Think about it. An enemy usually carries with him/her characteristics that are your opposite, thereby making her a non-friend. So if someone likes your enemy, it's an indirect way of saying he doesn't like you, right? Why deal with that? Why even go there if you know you're going to end up more heart broken? Move on, find someone that's worth your time and not hanging out with people that aren't even remotely near what you'd call "friends." Good luck!
2007-06-07 18:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
(1) Why do you invite "your enemy Jazmin" to your party?
(2) He's "with" her (whatever that means) and there's nothing you can do. Find a better guy to have a summer fling with.
2007-06-07 18:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say that ryan sounds like he wants to have fun with lots of girls and not get serious with just one. if he's worth it, then play along. just don't get your heart involved (i know, easier said than done) just play cool at your party and see what happens. i'm a little confused why you invited jazmin if she is the enemy..... sounds like ryan is a player.
2007-06-07 18:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by ka76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts to be rejected, but first of all, why were you going to ask this guy again if he already turned you down, and second, if he lied to you and went with your enemy, why do you still want him? You deserve someone better than him! There are plenty of other guys out there who are way better than this liar. Just get over him - he's not worth it! and enjoy the party!!! Good luck!
2007-06-07 18:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by pink_luv787 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask another guy to the party and treat Jasmine and Ryan with respect and kindness when they show up. Try being a nice person.
2007-06-07 18:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he lied to you. He said he didn't want to be with anyone else when really he already was. Do you want to be with a liar. Why couldn't he be man enough to just tell you the truth? Who needs a lying boyfriend.....be glad your not with him and feel sorry for Jazmin because her boyfriend is a liar.
2007-06-07 18:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by ilovedthe70s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. He was giving you a line when he said he doesn't want to get with anyone cause it's summer. Take it with a grain of salt that he didn't want to be with you. So what? Big deal. Let him go. You're not going to let this one guy hurt your ego. Be strong and confident.
At the party, kill him with kindness. Make it look like it's no big deal. Go about your business. Be nice and show him that it was a big mistake to not take your first offer.
2007-06-07 18:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by Scott D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow it'z summer so he doesn't wanna get with you? Lame excuse.
Also, if Jazmin's your enemy why did you invite her to the party?
2007-06-07 18:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him again at the party. Then again the summer isn't over, just let him know you're still intersted. Flirt with him. I am pretty sure he likes you, and it should work.
2007-06-07 18:08:02 · answer #10 · answered by Remus L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋