At the beginning of the school year I liked this guy but he broke my heart so many times. I gave him so many chances that i lodt count at five. I gave him my last chance and somebody said we were together and he really, truly doesn't me that way. So he got mad and stop talking to me. Now am pretty sure am never talking to him again. Now I like this guy name garth and he told me he doesn't like me and he never will. So now i feel broken inside. Yah but why is it that guys only give chit about themselves and they don't care who the hell they hurt ??????????????
Who the heck do they think they are ??????????????
2007-06-07 10:26:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's probably because they think you are daddy's little sad princess! That you are not worthy of being their princess! =<)
2007-06-15 09:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Grandmaster Adler von Chase 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off: stop blaming other people for you emotions...your feelings...
just because someone doesn't feel the same way you do doens't mean they are wrong or bad people.
Every action has consequences...therefore some good some bad....but at the end of the day actions happend due to YOUR choice...nobody elses. YOU chose to care/like someone, YOU chose to give some guy "several" chances...
so the only person you have to blame is you.
Try to worry more about positive things in your life and you will see that you will get good things...
You sound young so....I understand it takes time to know these things....
2007-06-07 10:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First, find the something within yourself that makes you keep choosing this type of guy. Getting to know someone takes time and you should not give your all at one time. Guys like mystery, so keep some things to yourself and let them figure you out. Keeping them guessing keeps them interested. Some guys may be up to the challenge and some won't. The ones that stick around may be worth investing in. God Bless!
2007-06-15 09:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by flirty30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, 'little princess', have you thought maybe you're too young to be falling in lust 'so many times'? You sound as though you just go from one to the next (called rebounding), and of course you're going to get the shaft. It's not that they only 'care about themselves'..you 'gurls' put them in that position. Back off, respect yourself and be FRIENDS, instead of trying for constant relationships with these guys. They have one track minds..and it's not all about loving you. They tend to 'play' like they've 'been played'. They have feelings too, as much as you don't want to recognize that fact.
2007-06-15 08:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, I CARE A LOT ABOUT WHO I HURT. I got into a fight with a close friend I dated. 5 months later I'm still begging for forgiveness and a second chance. I give a lot of chit about her. I'll bet you did things to provoke their actions.
2007-06-15 07:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by NJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most alll guys are the same, you'll be lucky if you CAN find a good one these days....but that was very wrong of him, he shouldn't have had so many chances...
2007-06-15 02:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by vegetariangirl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some guys really do care they just have a way of showing it. stop putting yourself out there like that and just love come to you.
2007-06-15 10:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by ninaderald 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being over-dramatic and a martyr.
You have it no worse than anyone else.
No one has a lock on life... learn to control your emotions and just get over it.
2007-06-07 10:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Kia A 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok.. if ur in his position .. just think he may having some sort of thoughts.. if a person like u.. and if u dislike them.. how will u express them.. urself.. its impossible isnt it.. just think in their position to too.. try to find out..
2007-06-15 08:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋