My friend says that cheating on your bf is sooo cool.?

Question

Having 2-5 bfs at a time is not good. she says that one day soon she plans on making out with one of them Trever Homles.And dumping the others. She knows that making out with Trever is wrong because he is 15 1/2 and she is 10. Can you tell me what to tell her. PLZZZZZ HELP ME!!!!!????????.............

Answer 1

tell her to calm her self down she is ten years old and already doing this stuff Im definetly keeping close watch on my little cousin your friend shouldn't even have a boyfriend

Answer 2

Hi Kay. You are absolutely right to be concerned about this kind of talk from your friend. First, though, it's not your responsability to change your friend's behaviour. She's planning to do something she knows is wrong - that's never a good idea, she will definitely regret breaking her own code of right&wrong. And it sounds to me like she's breaking your code too, right? You don't approve of what she's doing, having several boyfriends, and I would agree with you. I don't think that having more than one boyfriend is a good idea - being boyfriend and girlfriend is all about getting to know each other better and being special friends - it's not so special if you spread it around!

I think you should tell your friend clearly that you don't think what she's doing is a good idea, that it's not cool at all because it's deceitful and selfish. Then she can go ahead and do what she wants but you will have done your part and your conscience will be clear.

I also think 10 yrs old is too young to be kissing boys or going any further. If you are 10 as well, I really think you should hold on for another couple of years until you have a teenage head on your shoulders. Kissing etc is much nicer when it's with someone your own age, so they aren't older/more knowledgeable / more dominant than you ... it's much much better to be on an equal footing (take it from me!)

every good wish . X

Answer 3

Well.... where is the mother of this girl??? I think someone needs to be telling the mother whats going on with her daughter, cause I know my Child better not be doing anything like that, and a 15 year old at that.... why is she even messing with a boy that age anyway.... She needs to STOP everything before something bad happens..... She ONLY 10 tell her to stop trying to rush so much to GROW up..... What happen to 10 year olds thinking boy are sick??? Not wanting to have a BF that's 15, and again WHERE IS THE MOTHER ?????

Answer 4

Tell her that adult and responsible people don't cheat. And at 10? I can't even remember ten. I know I didn't even care about boys then. Tell her that if she thinks she's old enough and responsible enough to make out with guys, especially so much older than her, than she should. And then tell her that that 15 year old is going to take advantage of her or spread horrible rumors about her and she's going to have a bad reputation around school. I think shocking her is the only way to overcome what she thinks is "cool".

Answer 5

tis so called friend of yours has a lot of mental problems to get out of her head.
10 years old you dont have boy friends and not multipleOnes for sure, You have friends at most and dont have to proove yourself popular like this girl seems to be trying to fit in with this boys Older crowd or something.
I would not be hanging around this girl any longer, you could end up in a real mess.
The Guy is 15 and should know better than to be wanting to be a boyfriend if he is, to a 10 year old.
How old are the other boys?
If you are really close friends with the other family you may want to mention this up comming though of hers to the girls parents, t help protecter her from harming the rest of her life.

If your friend is really wanting to do this, then distance yourself or tell you paents you have something important to talk to them about and need their advice.
Use real names, dont make any up, just t ell them.

good luck and dont feel pressured to do anything like this Be a kid and dont chase the boys for at least 5 years more.

Answer 6

Can she say, that she doesn't like him that much, because if they do make out, she is jail bait and he is the fish. I dont really consider myself that old, but da** kids are growing up soooooooooooo fast. I would like to think I have a good relationship with my children, I am a little strict though. It is hard to believe that someone 10 yrs old,is considering anything besides a (maybe )holding hand, this is my boyfriend at school thing. I hate to sound like an old fogie, but growing up, we couldn't even talk on the phone, let alone answer it. We weren't left anywhere by ourselves, like the movies, the mall. Kids just didn't have the freedom they do now. Not to mention, if the guys find out she is fast at 10, they will definitely 'train' her. they will use her. Gosh, I hope she makes a better decision than that, you know like barbies or even tonka trucks. good luck with your friend, sounds like she is going to need it and you!!!

Answer 7

OMG she is such a slutty whore! I really don't know what to say but I would stay away from her because she could be a bad influence.And it also sounds like she is lying to you,I mean seriously how many people who are ten and make out with people who are fifteen. She probably isn't even developed yet (has boobs,hips,hair on her You know what). I'm twelve and I'm not the first person to tell you that you are crazy for believing her.Good Luck!

Answer 8

Well, she is 10 and is still quite young, tell her that she has her whole life ahead of her and that boys come and go, make it clear that she shouldn't rush into things just to be cool, Good luck and i think your a great friend to be worried. :D

Answer 9

Cheating is cheating. Regardless if its with another person or a test in school. You know its wrong. Ten year olds have no business even thinking about sex.

Answer 10

WHOA!!~!! This friend of yours must be a catch! Well, i would tell her to go for someone her own age, because dating a 15 year old is dangerous and also its against the ten commandments to commit adultery!