I left my boyfriends house last night to discover my cell batt. was dead and id forgotten my charger at work. He went to his night job and tried calling me on his break to no avail. Now he says he needs time, he's upset he couldnt get a hold of me. The sad part is Im taking a trip out of town in the morning and we havent spent anytime together this week. How do I reassure our commitment before I leave on my trip?
2007-06-07 09:24:25 · 5 answers · asked by Samirah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok weve only been dating for 2 months he was really dogged out by his last girlfriend thus the mistrust. Weve all been hurt. He is everything Ive been looking for in a man, minus the insecruity. At first I thought it was cute now Im a little worried that I will be paying for the mistakes of his past girlfriends. Im not ready to end the relationship, I see a future with this man but how do we get past the trust issue? How can you help a man believe that he has a diamond in the rough?
2007-06-07 09:40:41 · update #1
He sounds very insecure and I would reconsider a relationship at all with this man or should i say boy . No man would act like this .
2007-06-07 09:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you not have a line phone that he could have called you on? Or did he not have a line phone you could have called him on? All you can do is continue to reasure him that you left your cell phone batt at work. Appears there are trust issues. You both need to see why it is he can easily believe this of you. If this has been a common argument between the both of you I'd say the relationship is sure to fail. You both need to work harder on building trust in this relationship. In the mean time, try your best to clear this up with him because left unresolved it will cause concerns for more mistrust in the future.
2007-06-07 09:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very insecure and like he doesn't trust you. If you contantly have to reassure him that you are not cheating you are eventually going to get tired of defending yourself (trust me, I've been there). Maybe you do need some time apart, because its either that or you guys are going to be constantly going back and forth.
Or it could be that he feels guilty about something he has done and is trying to make you out to be the bad guy by accusing you of something he did.
If you tell him to give you space, he will try to say that it is confirming that you are seeing other people. Don't fall for that. You didn't do anything wrong and shouldn't feel like you are on trial all the time. **it happens, cell phones die: it doesn't mean that you are cheating! He needs to trust you..
2007-06-07 09:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ms B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's sounds really insecure. You need to tell him to get over it or you're done because if he can't trust you then your relationship will never work. If you haven't done anything to make him distrust you he should give you the benefit of the doubt until you do.
2007-06-07 09:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's THAT insecure and doubting, all the reassurance you give him will mean nothing...
2007-06-07 09:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by aspicco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋