should i marry him?

Question

i meet this man on a singles site,we have meet in person and have been inseperable since the only thing is we have been together for 1 mth now and he has asked me to move inand marry him what should i do? im meeting his kids this weekend

im 38,hes 44,he has 5 kids,i have 2

Answer 1

The whole time issue (1 month) is not that big of a deal. If you have been inseparable, you probably do know him. There is not too much to any guy that cannot be figured out in a month of intensive contact.

I imagine there is something wrong (in your mind) about the sitaution or you would not have been asking the question. If that is the case, you should probably address this problem(s) with him. If you have a good idea of who the guy is (he hasn't surprised you in the last month) and you are okay with what you know about him...I say go for it.

Answer 2

No. maybe in the near future but what do you really know about him. remember you guys met on line and the Internet lies. Even though you guys are inseparable you only known him for a month or so. It seem a bit early .. he also has other responsibilities to him kids. Meets the kids if everything works out between the kids and you and time passes then move in . You may realize a kind of person he is then maybe better maybe not. Only TIME will tell.

- Good luck :)

Answer 3

I met my current husband on Match.com, and I know that when you first meet someone and you click, emotions can run really high and it is so easy to go faster than you should. You need to keep your head on straight right now, and should encourage him to slow down!! One month is way too soon to move in and consider marriage!!! I could go along with meeting the kids this weekend. (Also, someone who moves that quickly sometimes is showing an act of desparation) Just reassure him that you want to stay dating exclusively - but you need more time to just date and get to know each other before getting more serious. Believe me, there is a whole lot more to find out about him before you make that type of commitment.

Answer 4

I know where you are coming from. I met the love of my life on the net but we have only been together for about 2 months. We know that we will get married but not yet. It sounds like you need to get to know him a little better. If you are just now meeting his kids just spend time getting to know him.

Answer 5

Don't move in with this guy, not yet. Give yourself some time to learn if you can stand him. If he has kids then you need to realize that kids are hard to deal with. Its hard being a step anything. People change when the fire of the first kiss dies, and sometimes its not for the best. Good luck God Bless.

Answer 6

you only live once, so if you really do love him you can work it out. and hopefully all of your kids will get a long. does he live in the same city as you? depending on the age of your children, you should def. talk it over with them. they'll feel much better if they feel like they have a say in the relationship and the outcome. i wish you the best of luck. and just do that feels right and makes you happy~

Answer 7

Slow down! A month is hardly enough time to know someone or even meet their children.

Before you move in find out why he is in such a rush. I hope he is the right one for you, but take your time.

Answer 8

How old are you? I would also get to know him first. There are people who get married after a short time of courting. Good Luck.

Answer 9

I would sloooooooooooooooooooooow down. 1 month is hardly enough time for me to break in a new pair of sneakers. Def. not enough time for you to figure out if the guy is everything you think he is.

Answer 10

Get to know him first! But after all is said and done if you feel it's what you want to do then follow your heart!