I met my ex gf for a drink last night.
Things ended 4 mths ago, her choice. For 2 mths I tried to get her back but she was sure us being apart was right.
She didn't seem ultra interested in meeting me. I told her I had moved on, was dating other women, and happy to be friends. As soon as I did that she unexpectedly rang me up, the first time in months.
I thought that was either because she was jealous/curious I had moved on or because she felt we could be friends because I was dating other people.
We met for a drink. We chatted. There is definitely something still there.
I would like to see if there is a chance for us but want to be cool. I do miss her but am not 100% us being together is right but I think we should find out.
How long should I wait before I call her??
I want to give her space & not be pushy but not wait too long. I am thinking a week??
2007-06-07 08:21:29 · 11 answers · asked by bepositive1976 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after 4 days if she doesnt call you maybe txt her telling her you are heading out with mates and maybe you could meet up later dont ivite her along but still meet with her later to keep her wondering =)..x
2007-06-07 08:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by angel with wings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the young lady called you out of jealosy/curiosity.
If you are really dating others and having a good time doing so, then you wouldn't be thinking about getting back together with her. I think you answered your own question when you said that you don't feel 100% certain that you should try things again.
IMHO, move on. It's never a good think to go backwards - no matter how much you like the person. Every breakup happens for a reason.
2007-06-07 08:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about a quick text asap to say you had fun, would like to see her again some time. Not moving on too soon to getting back together proper.
Just a thought - Maybe if you did end up as 'just' really good friends, that might be better for you both anyway!??
good luck :-)
2007-06-07 08:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do would be to send her an email and tell her you had a great time, etc. Then tell her to give you a call if she wants to get together for another drink in the future. Sometimes the less you pursue the more you are pursued!
2007-06-07 08:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by oneamy2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call her at all mate. let her do the running. if you do it she'll back off again and leave you feeling like a right numpty. let her have a little think about why your not ringing her. it'll do her head in trust me.
2007-06-07 08:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a day or two, im married to my ex now, sometimes it doesnt work other times it pays to step back in time
2007-06-11 05:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by carsha1uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt call her to be honest. stay strong and get over her. i think the only reason she met u was because she doesnt want you but she doesnt want anyone else to have you. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-06-07 08:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt wait just call her but if you keep on calling and then that would get annoying you know? just tell her everything on your mind ifyou get the answering machine and see if she calls back!:
2007-06-07 08:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call her, let her call you, or you are guna get into thinking you wanna get back and she will run a mile again, no fun if it's on a plate.
2007-06-07 08:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta just call her everyday to talk as friends for a week and then ask her
2007-06-07 08:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by BiG Stylin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋