I have really good friend who works with me and she also has a crush on me.She is really nice person, I am not saying this because she has a crush on me but I love her as a friend. She wanted me to go out with her but I we don’t have the time to hangout together when I am off she is working and when she is off I am working. And we are both really busy with school. I think there is something in me that she really likes and to tell you the truth I am not that attractive looking guy. So I didn’t really go out with her yet. But the other day I heard something from someone and kind of heard my feelings. He told me “you are dumped cuse she was having lunch with someone” but again who know that could have be her cousin. I don’t care if she goes out with someone else but I wanna be her friend still. She is getting mad at me each time she asks me to go out with and I tell her I have to work or I have something important to do and she usually not talk to me for a day but she is nice the next day
2007-06-07 08:12:39 · 34 answers · asked by Mike K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did answer one of your other questions! WTF, don't you read the answers?
2007-06-07 08:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by Rhiannon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, since i know the situation and agree with most of these people (leave, you have both been unhappy for a long time), i know when i finally broke free of the man i was "stuck with" for yrs,, it felt like a million pounds of pressure was lifted, i started smiling again and realized that i am important and he did NOT deserve me. he is still to this day a miserable person, but i am happier than i have ever been.. i guess what im saying is, yes, it will be rough trying to get on your feet at first, but you are a strong person and you can do it... anyone who knows you would say the same thing... the rest of the family will adjust.. mine did.. you have been miserable for way too long, he's not going to change, you should know that after all these yrs.... just leave, let yourself find happiness again someday... it will happen, i promise :) and for the kids... all the yrs of arguing and tension around the house has prob done more harm then it would if you got a divorce, when your kids see you smiling again and feeling better about yourself, it will make them feel good..(even when ya think they dont care, they really do, i learned that from mine also) i hope that helps a little :)
2016-05-19 01:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by hallie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gain nothing by not taking a chance. As the saying goes better to have loved and lost then to have never loved before. If she is getting angry or "mad" when you don't take up the opprotunity to go out with her THAT SHOULD TELL YOU SOMETHING!!!!! And maybe she likes you , be it friend or otherwise, because of the fact that you don't think that you are God's gift to the world or the greatest thing since sliced bread. And maybe she likes you for you.
I will conclude with this. Grow a pair of "onions" and get the courage to make time to go out with this chick and go have some freakin' fun!!!! And quit making excuses for why you can not go out with her. Because if she hooks upwith some other dude you'll end up thinking "I should have done ......."
Take it easy and have a good time..............
2007-06-07 08:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by scott b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, there isn't a question in this. But, if what you're asking is "What should I do?" I guess my best advice would be to do something wrong, in order to do something right. Either wait until she asks you out again, or take the initiative and ask her yourself. Find a day where she's not working, and if you are, say yes anyway. Call in sick that day. Then, you get to go out, and she'll probably think it's sweet that you wanted to go out with her so much. Again, that's just an idea, don't do it if you can't afford to.
2007-06-07 08:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by clairvoyant_dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you question is?
OK I'll assume you want to keep this girl as a friend, a pal, and buddy. That's OK. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders (believe it or not, girls really do care about brains and ambition more than good looks) and a "steady girl" just isn't right just now.
That said, you really should make time to see her - that is if you really want to. Again, don't think of yourself as not that good looking - she's charmed by your wit and brains and personality.
Again, even though school and work come first right now (as they should!) - it doesn't mean that you can't find SOME time to squire her out properly.
I'd do that sooner rather than later - she's liable to quit you for good.
2007-06-07 08:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mike, if you like this person as busy as both of you might be you have to make time to go out with her, if only for an ice cream cone or something. If not eventually, she will get tired of waiting and one day it won't be her cousin coming to take her away from you. and about what other idiots say don't pay attention.you take courage from the fact she likes you and she sees someone special that apparently you don't so give her a chance to know you and get to know yourself. I'm sure you have a lot to offer...
2007-06-07 08:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by La Tia Rini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she acts that way becuase you killed her ego. She does forgive you tho. Why not give it a try, I mean it can be weird at first if things dont work out, but maybe she is asking you out as a freind, a previous coworker and I would be like, lets go out, and everyone thought we were dating, we both had someone, but we are just freinds, the point behind that, we tried dating, it didnt work, we became good freinds, and know nothing else is going to happen, so give it a shot, I mean the worse thing that could happen is that you guys dont date anymore!
2007-06-07 08:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very long essay here, and I don't see a question.
If you like the girl, make time for her. If you don't, then gently tell her and let her go on with her life. She's not going to wait around forever. I'd get mad at you if you had an excuse every time I asked you out too!
BTW.. she hasn't "dumped" you as your friends say because you two have never dated.
2007-06-07 08:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go out with someone else to if you NEVER had time for me. Theres no way you cant find time during one of the 7 days a week 24 hrs a day.. and if shes your FRIEND its not your business who shes dating..
2007-06-07 08:17:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she really likes you and becuase she thinks that you don't like her, she is trying to move on with her life and go out to lunch with other people. What you should do if you really want her to be your friend is you should make time to talk to her and tell her that you are really bussy with your job and that you really want to make plans with her... and when you do have time to try to make plans with her she is bussy with her own plans and you two can never really do anything together. Also make sure that when you say this to her you sound like you are telling her the truth. After you tell her this try your hardest to fit her into your schedule if you really care about being friends with her. Oh and also... tell her that you only want to be friends if that is really all you want... that way she knows that she needs to stop getting mad at you and she can move on with her dating life.
2007-06-07 08:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by Coca-cola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't ask a question.
Do you like this girl?
She likes you. So go out with her. Clear a hole in your schedule and go to a movie. The worst outcome is that you don't get along. The best is that you keep going out.
Does this answer your question?
2007-06-07 08:22:44 · answer #11 · answered by nicolemcg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋