So I went on a really great first date a week ago today. This woman and I had a great time (well, I suppose I can only speak for myself...) and I think there is a good vive there. We have talked several times since, and yesterday we exchanged some texts and I told her that I was going to call her that night so we could talk about a day for a second date.
I called and left a message semi-late last night and did not hear back. So far today I have yet to hear from her. I don't think it's a big deal, but the question is should I try and call again to see if she wants to get together? Or should I wait for her to call me? I realize she might be busy or whatever, and I don't want to seem pushy, but I really would love to take her out again soon.
I also realize that maybe she isn't as interested, and maybe by not calling for a day or two, she is trying to tell me that.
Should I just let it go and wait for her to call? Or should I try her again today?
Thanks.
2007-06-07 08:05:23 · 5 answers · asked by John H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, i would say to wait, I mean it's only been, what 12 hours or so? As far as leaving another message is concerned, if she enjoyed your last date as much as you did she will be checking her message service, in hopes that you have called. She may just be busy, give her a chance to call you back.
2007-06-07 08:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by Rhiannon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you left a message that indicates that you are or were interested. Just as long as you left a message saying that you should go out again, and you should of told her to call you back. Sometimes women do not call right away so that they wont seem desperate, she might call sometime soon, but if a week or two has passed by, and she still has not returned your call, you could try again, but you risk sounding too interested, I would wait for her to call and if she does not call that is a sign that she is not interested and it would be better if you don't call again, but if you really enjoyed the date, you could try to call again, but only if it was really good.or maybe she never got the message, or something like that.
2007-06-07 08:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by CEZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't text her again. wait until tonight and then call her, and if she doesn't pick up, leave a general message. if she still doesn't call back, wait two days...and if no answer, well then you can probably just chalk her off as a loss.
2007-06-07 08:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait for like two days and then call her. if she dosent answer the leave a message. if she does not return the call then she is not interested
2007-06-07 08:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by BiG Stylin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No let her call you because she might see that as pushy if you call her again . just sit back and relax and she will probably call you . if she does nt then she was not that into you and you should move on . good luck .
2007-06-07 08:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋