In a potential relation/marriage partner
(men keep out)
2007-06-07 07:00:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I am married, and when I met my husband (a Muslim) I was not Muslim. This is what attracted me to him and not other men:
-he is genuine/sincere
-he is soooo patient
-he is kind to everybody
-he is pious
-he is very loving
-he is devoted to me and our marriage
-I am the most important person in his life and he makes sure I feel that way
-he is loved by everybody
-he is gentle
-he never pressured me to even learn about Islam, he left that up to me
-he spoils me in every way imaginable
-he willingly helps me with everything that needs to be done
-he respects my opinion and listens to what I have to say
-we are equal in our relationship
-I don't just know that I am loved, I feel loved too
-he is the kind of man I have searched for and could never find. I have the perfect husband, Alhemdulilah.
2007-06-07 09:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
God fearing, able to provide, sincere. These where all qualities I was looking for. I was fortunate I have found someone who meets all these qualities and more. Most women are looking for a man who is strong and caring. Some go after money and gifts these are women who five years later won't be happy. A good Muslim women will know that if a man puts Allah(swt) first then he will be good to her. If the man has no respect for Allah(swt) how will he respect anyone.
2007-06-07 14:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by je 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
For me, im still looks for Love. Without love i think there's nothing in life. After love than will come, sincere, loyal and trusting. After all these show up then it will be partner's and friend's.
The partner's and friend's will bring caring and responsiblity. All these things attached together closed by and created a harmony and loving in a family and islam is the whole thing. For me, Love is part of islam too.
2007-06-07 14:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough question ...................... Lets see
*A good personality
*someone that respects & understands me
*Financially stable (not rich but he must have a decent job)
*An Intelligent person that i can have a good conversation with.
*Someone thats not jealous & he understands that we sometimes need a few hours away from eachother to focus on ourseleves instead of eachother
*A guy that loves my parents as much as i love them
* Someone accepts me completely
* Someone that puts me first always
* A guy that will be apart of dreams & future goals, a supportive husband.
* A husband thats not lazy to assist with household duties.
Lol............ I know its a long list but if my future husband does the above for me then i will in turn to the same for him, A marriage is 50/ 50 relationship. No one is superior over anyone , Man & women are equal.
The Prophet (saw) spoiled his wives, treated them with respect, Loved & cherished each one of them & he allowed them to voice their opinion.
Treat your wife the way the Prophet (saw) treated his wives & you will be a fantastic husband.
2007-06-11 06:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, and the most important : He must be a good Muslim, does 5 times prayer, doesn't do anything forbidden in Islam
other qualities
- mature figure
- open minded
- appreciate my aspiration and support me to reach my dream
- like to have kids (i heard some guys doesn't wanna have kid, that's so bad)
even i meet that kind of guy, but if he doesn't love me, it will be nothing he he he
so the last qualities is, He can love me and can understand my bad side, can help me to reduce that
That's all
2007-06-07 22:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by marhama 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
seriously, now, i dont go for look anymore. what's important, the guy can guide me to know and love Allah and Islam, he loves me as i am and can correct me when i wrong in a proper way, being a qudwah hasanah for me. i somehow believe that a good man for a good woman and a bad man for a bad woman. so, who is my future life partner also reflect who am i.
2007-06-07 14:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by iDea 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...
how about all the following things combined:
*piety
* huge sense of humour,witty and funny
*good looks
*good manners and responsibilty.
*respect for the person that i turned out to be..
*tolerance,patience etc.(loads of it,if they are to live with me for the rest of their life ; @)..
and many many more..Now,that's what i call a dream package..
2007-06-07 14:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lamya 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
exactly as most of the above said.
A Man that is passionate, emotional, sincere and has all the virtues of a true Muslim.
2007-06-07 23:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by . 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first thing he should be pious because that way he'll apply all Allah's commands in treating me with kindness and respect.
other things are descendant from that ; honesty,responsibility,
....etc.
i always say that a God-fearing man will be pious to God in treating me even if he doesn't love me..
2007-06-07 14:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
When I start looking i am going to look for these things
single
funny
smart
nice
polite
religious
2007-06-07 14:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋