i am a female not a lesbian! ok got that out of the way. i play for a traveling asa softball team and i'm one of the older players. i know people look up to me and one girl called me her idol. so there's this girl always starring at me whatever i do she's starring even if were stretching all glanse over at her and she starring at me! if i laugh she then laughs it's kinda weird. i hope she wants to be just like me nothing more. what do you think about this situation? what should i do?
2007-06-07 06:59:18 · 25 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sure you are just spazzing. she probably just wants to be your friend, and nothing more. dont be so full of yourself, let the air out of your head and move on. not everybody wants to hump you, got it?
2007-06-07 07:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by midnyghtcloud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not costing you a thing,
to just ignore her and let her
have a nice day. Whether
she is straight or lesbian,
she doesn't have her hands
on you. Let it go! Why hurt
someone, over something
like this if, you don't have to.
If the time ever comes, that
you have to have a talk with her.
Let her down, as easy, as you can.
Kindness doesn't cost a thing.
2007-06-07 07:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Whether she is a lesbian or not, she's becoming a pest. Some admirers become stalkers.
Let her know early in the game that you are very busy with sports, school, and your boy friend. If she continues, report her to the coach.
2007-06-07 07:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by ne11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she is a lesbian, you should take her aside so no one else can hear you. Be nice but explain that you are not a lesbian and you hope that she doesn't think of you in that way. Be careful not to hurt her feelings but she needs to be told so she hasn't created a fantasy that you are in with her. Good luck. One more thing....if she isn't a lesbian, she may be just so admiring of you and your softball talent that she wants to copy you.
2007-06-07 07:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her? obviously it's because she admires you, and only she knows why she is always staring at you. She might just look up to you, or she might be in love with ya. Either way, let her know you find it kind of creepy and don't like it, if it bothers you that much. All the best.
2007-06-07 07:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do will be that u should just talk to her about this problem and tell her that u don't like her starring at u and if so just tell her that she id freaking u out
2007-06-07 07:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by kajal c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she might be crushing on you. To gently, and passively, let her know you like men start talking about your boyfriend, or some guy you are dating. If that doesn't work for you just pull her aside and let her know the starring is inappropriate and makes you uncomfortable.
Good Luck!!!
2007-06-07 07:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by longhornfan1722 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First just say something like" Dang! Is it a booger hanging out of my nose???!" Just so u can let her have some hint that you know that she's staring at you. Then if she continues to do it, ask her why she's looking at u all the time.
2007-06-07 07:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. What is there to do? Nothing has happened. She hasn't approached you or hit on you so your fine. If you find the staring a problem, address it. End of story. Or stop looking back.
2007-06-07 07:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Fuschia33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls involved in softball are lesbians. Maybe she does want to be your gf or date you. But I wouldn't worry about it, if she ever tries to make a move on you or ask you out just tell her you're not a lesbian.
2007-06-07 07:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by joe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For now, just set a good example, and in case she's crushing on you, don't agree to spend time alone with her.
Ever see Single White Female? If she starts dressing like you and gets her hair done like yours it's time to get scared and get her a shrink :)
2007-06-07 07:03:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋