There's this great guy from india who i toldely admire and love=) he's a very honest guy to me and also treats me like a QUEEN.. right! we been going out for two year's, and now i am leaving.. im moveing to New Zealand and the thing is i dont want to break his heart because he feel's that right when i get up to New Zealand im going to have someone new in my life?!?! and he dosen't want our relationship to end??? i said to him that i love him very much... and i thank him for all that he done for me:)but now the time has come for me to leave and i really have no choice? The reason i am moveing to NZ is because my nana is very sick at the moment.. and seriously need's my help...ect.. and i told him that hopefully our road's cross again someday.. and we both cried very much that day! he told me that if i leave him he don't know what he will do.. becaue he can't ever find another lover no matter how hard he tries he know's it's impossible... what should i do?!??!?
2007-06-07 06:51:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the solution is -
bring him to NZ to be with you.
hey you are lucky because only some peoples get true love.
GOOD LUCK.
2007-06-10 06:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you can keep in touch with each other, either through the internet or through regular mail, or he can come down and visit sometime since you can't leave because of your nana, but keeping in touch with each other is a good idea letting him know that you love him and write him letting him know that you think about him everyday; which you really do, and he should write you too; communication is always the key to a long relationship, keep in stouch with him, and remind him to keep in touch with you. Tell him these words: "miles may seperate us, but memories keep us close; let him know that both he and yourself are soulmates and that make you both sacredly united and that time and space and distance cannot destroy the love you have for him, and only he alone is your ultimate match, and no matter what you will see him again; because I know you will see him again for sure", let him know that beyond the fabric of this world; only his spirit, mind, and body is yours, and you his, let him also know that both his love and your love is so strong that it transcends distance and time.////////// "I say this my sister; love is true, is infinite and never fails"
2007-06-07 08:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kaneka Majii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather have money problems, but then again, I'd rather just find a way to convince the world to eliminate the concept of money, and stop wasting paper.
2016-05-19 01:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family is important and this should be your first concern but more importantly look into your heart and ask yourself. Do you love him? If the answer is undeniably yes, then you must make the choice about being with him and forever but learn his culture or there could be some issues. I pray you both work out and he wins your heart.
2007-06-07 16:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Some Quotes from my side ...
When emotions play their role heart cries, when heart cries it doesn't make any sound & the person who listens to the unmade sound is called LOVE.........
So dont worry take care of your nannu, be pateience and wait for the day..... If that guy really hear your unmade sound in your absence then don't miss him..... Wish U all Success
( supplementry )
1. Trying to forget someone U love is like trying to remember someone you have never met.
2007-06-07 09:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by chennai veeran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think whats required most in love relationship is trust. this guy doesn't seem to trust u much and doesn't have faith in ur love for him.thats not good, is it?but then, we all are human and we all have this doubting streak.u cant do anything abt it. dont fuss abt the matter now. when u go to NZ, u keep calling him and keep letting him know every now and then hw much u truly love him. then, slowly his faith in u will increase and he'll know that if he waits for u, u wont let him down
2007-06-07 07:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by salma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is rare and we all don't get the chance to experience it. I would ask him to come with you. Why not?? You love each other right?? YOu want a future together right?? Then he should want to follow you anywhere. I would follow my boyfriend anywhere....the North Pole if that is where he wanted for us to live. That is what you do for love. Good luck hunny!!
2007-06-07 12:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by Deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing to do is follow ur heart.. right now ur family needs u.. i think if he really loved u and is the gr8 guy u say he is then he would understand and let u go.... do what u feel is right for u not for him!! gd luck and i wish u all the best if u chose to move..
2007-06-07 06:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by Skyli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was meant to be then it will be. You sound like you have your priorities in line and your Nana needs you. Try to keep in touch with him.
2007-06-07 17:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by Kathrine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know he's the one then go to new zealand for awhile and then come back for him. i know you want to help your nana but lets face life is short.
2007-06-07 06:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋