ok when me and my fiance get intamate it's only like once a night. when we first got engaged you were like two jack rabbits you couldn't stop us. what's wrong with him now he can't keep up like he used to and he get tired after one time knowing I want more. can anybody help? plz
2007-06-07 05:11:03 · 25 answers · asked by Aubrie F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he juz got kinda tired! let him rest a while.... and after dat he mite be wild then he used to!!
2007-06-07 05:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~ Kikis ~*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hehehe! Welcome to the world of serious relationship!
Some couples go through this-I did with my fiance just after i moved in with him. The reason I think this happened was because we both knew we could get it whenever we wanted to, and it became a bit "samey."
The answer: Ann Summers, or similar. Get some cute little outfits to put the spice back into your sex life. Believe me, a corset and stockings set in his favourite colour, a naughty massage while dressed in a little outfit....fixed everything for us.
Putting the spice back into things and shaking it up a bit was the best thing we ever did and now sex has gone back to being more fun than a chore.
Of course, it took me quite a lot to pluck up the confidence, but one day I just went for it. I finished work early having booked half day, went home to get the flat ready, got my little outfit on for him for when he came home, and left little notlets everywhere with arrows drawn on them pointing to the bedroom.
Once you get over the looking-like-a-tit barrier its absolutely great. Have fun!!!
2007-06-15 06:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by Loulla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, that sometimes happens in long term relationships. Some couples end up having sex less and less. What you should do is try to make things more personal. Get romantic. If he's not that type, then maybe you should try some kinky stuff. Find out what turns him on the most and use it to your advantage. My guess is that he has fantasies you don't know about yet. Finding out what they are and giving them to him will probably boost your sex life back up. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-06-07 12:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't satisfied with once a night? I think you need to find something to take up more of your time, no desrespect intended. I don't think there is anything wrong with him except that he is getting tired of putting out all the time. How about some cuddling, watching a nice movie together, whatever.
2007-06-07 12:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey don't drain out the guy. u 2 need 2 take a rest from that spend more time cuddling and talking about what u did that day. u can't live on sex alone some people just get tired at some point. : - )
2007-06-07 12:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jizzy F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's too pooped to pop. He had a enough nookie,to last him a while. You have to make it exciting for him again. Try wearing sexy negligees and do erotic wiggles,to spark his interest. Sex starts in the eyes and goes to the brain where it registered," I want her ". Wild sex doesn't last forever !! Your libido dies after many years doing it. I'll be married for 38Yrs on August 23,2007. Sexual intercourse is null for us,but we still have affection for each other. We do some petting and kissing.
2007-06-15 10:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by TAMPABAYLADY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL..are you sure hes not seeing someone else on the side cause that maybe would explain it or maybe it 's just routine and hes wants to spice it up aliile bit so try something new and exciting then see what happens...or cut him off and wait till he really wants it! try something from one of these stores u will deffinitalyu find a couple things!have fun!!!!
2007-06-15 09:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and my wife go on dates. and we mix it up, sometimes she will ask me out and pay for everything and sometimes I will ask her out. Regardless we go out, we leave our cell phones at home. Once she told me to meet her at a certain place after work. I did. she had gotten a hotel for the entire weekend.
The point is, if thing have become boring, then mix it up. The amount of sex is not what's important. It is the quality.
2007-06-15 01:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you talk to your fiance about it. sex is very important in a marraige, now is the time to talk about what both of you need, and try to explore ways as a couple for you to both feel satisfied sexually. there are a lot of great books and tapes available (not porn) but material by scientists/philosophers on the art of lovemaking.......most importantly, talk to your partner
2007-06-07 12:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by Wink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this one is easy... my ex and i had the same life and then when she got tired i figured that she lost the energy and then that is when i found out that she wanted sex from a 10 second man... so now i am single and looking for someone that won't lose interest in sex... i think sex keeps you lookin younger
2007-06-15 11:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by Nice D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is getting to the point where it slows down a little bit, it happens. it is perfectly normal so i wouldnt fret but if you need the extra attention i would get your tires spinning before the actual race if you know what i mean
2007-06-15 01:28:00 · answer #11 · answered by partly smart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋