we have been together for almost a year he was areal man gentle with me but of let he has become too busy, doesnt call anymore and even when i call he sometimes tells me he is busy or he says he will call later which he never does, its driving me crazy what do i do, wait and see or foreget it
2007-06-07 04:50:47 · 14 answers · asked by Aisha B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well he could be actually busy so u should just wait and see and if he never calls u and ur fed up with it then call him and let him know that he doesn't have enough time for u and that ur considering breaking up. That should scare him and get him straight if he cares enough about you. I know u like attention from ur bf...it's the same with me. But u just gotta deal with it and have fun while he's busy. Before u know it he'll be calling u so much that u'll get annoyed. Have fun and you won't worry so much and just think about all the good times that u guys have and that should be enough to get u through the day. Tha'ts what I do and it helps.
2007-06-07 04:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa Valdez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This ya girl bre bre I would call and leave him a message saying that we need to talk and if he doesn't respond then you show up over his house unannouced and you talk to him even if his boys are over there make sure that you have something really sexy on so he will have to tell his boys to leave. If he still uses that i was busy line, u say doing what u don't want to talk to me anymore.Then at that moment u kiss him and get him all hot then u leave don't answer his calls 4 about 2 days and if he really loves u he would say that he is sorry 4 putting u on hold!!!!! And if he doesn't love u. Then u simply move on to the next guy!!
ps hope that it works 4 u!!!!
2007-06-07 05:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Bre -Bre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not stand when a guy doesn't make any time for me. I've found that not calling and not contacting him at all first will show you if he really cares. If he calls or contacts you, he more than likely is thinking about you and wondering why YOU have stopped getting in touch with HIM. If he doesn't notice, move on. You're better than that.
2007-06-07 04:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times tough situation do arrive. Make a call to him tell him u wnat to meet him and want to discuss very important and crucial matter with him. If he get back to u try to understand him & if he not have time still then dont waste ur energy and time forget him. good luck. be happy. life is like that.
2007-06-07 05:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by sami s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he should have time 4 u at list call u but i would 4 get it if hes 2 busy 4 u he isn't worth it. he should call u back if he tells u he will call u later he will keep doing this so i would just 4 get it theirs more guys out their 4 u then just him.
2007-06-07 05:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by *~*lil shygirl*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel...tell him you feel neglected...&& if he's not making time for you I would say dump him but wait a week or 2 see how things pan out....me and my bf have been together for a year && he makes time almost every day to talk to me at least once...in less im working total opp schedule as him...talk to him about it good luck
2007-06-07 04:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by manda102285 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend went through the same thing.
just confront him on it.
tell him how you feel about this and ask if you can make a day a week to commit to eachother.
if he says he cant commit a day to you.
just break up with him.
no guy is worth spending hours by the phone and missing out on life.
2007-06-07 04:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, he wants out........until you stop trying to call him, then he'll want you back, then he'll get bored of you again and the beat goes on. Men are not made to stay with one women for a long period of time you women just get annoying after time so we get another chick that gets annoying after time and the beat goes on. You're not a challenge anymore you're annoying.
2007-06-07 05:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by imyourguy8675 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax, I know you love him and I can tell he has become your whole world. but your going to have to back off a little bit to find your answer....
2007-06-07 05:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by cute184 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok he doesnt u should break up with him and tell him to get a life
2007-06-07 05:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by hihi227!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋