I love my BF very very much. He knows this. I have told him in e-mails and letters. We have talked about how long I have loved him, (he is my best friend of over 6 years, and over that time certain "feelings" have evolved between us and for the last 2 months have been having a "romantic" relationship in addition to our awesome friendship)-Here is my problem, I LOVE HIM and it is hard to keep my moouth shut about it. Everytime we make love I bite my lip to avoid telling him that I do love him. I am so terrified of running him off or having him think that I am looking for more than we already have. I am a very patient person and have no desire to hurry this along...This is way to good to rush, I want to savor every second. So, how do I do this? He is the love of my life, and he is also my BEST FRIEND-the kind of friend you always hope to find, but rarely do. If kisses are indeed a good indicator of someones feelings, than he really loves me too...but he has never told me that...
2007-06-07 04:45:05 · 4 answers · asked by looking4truth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he hasn't told you he loves you, then he doesn't. Why are you sleeping with a guy you have no commitment with?
2007-06-07 04:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Looking from a mans view we have come to terms and alot of us go by this, is that the L word is a very hard and dangerous word that can either make or brake a relationship. Proven fact Love is that powerfull and as men we fear this word. From what I see you have always been saying that word. To be honest he is scared to say it and think that if he did say it that things would just go bad. We feel and think just as women do we just don't show it. In his mind he does not want to ruin a good thing like you have said. It has been years now you both need to sit down and lend an ear for each other and be honest. You can not go on like this forever not knowing, becuase eventually you both might loose that feeling for each other. Nows your chance for the both of you to see if your love for one another is strong. For communication, trust, and respect will always bring happiness to your life no matter what the problem is in life.
2007-06-07 04:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be cool about it. ask at the right moment do it in person, emails and letters arnt as good as being there. i had a girlfriend i asked her out by texting but i couldnt speak to her i went all funny round her so she said she would go out ith me if i asked in person so i did
2007-06-07 04:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by tennis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know he loves you back,
take something of his he'd want back.
then say tell me you love me and i'll give it back.
then when they say it say it back,
hand back whatever you took.
and smile.
if you dont know if he loves you.
look up at him.
and just say.
'i love you'
2007-06-07 04:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋