Ok, one of my friends has an older brother and I've been at her house a lot lately so we began to get to know each other. So.. yesterday he messaged my best friend and told her that he "kinda likes" me. So my friend told him stuff that I liked to do and now he wants to hang out the thing is hes 16 and I am only fourteen. I really do like I just dont know what to do. HELP!!!!!!!!! It would be appreiciated!!!!!!
2007-06-07 03:14:41 · 22 answers · asked by cherice k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you could try a relationship and see if it works.
or if you don't want an older guy just tell him and if he really likes you he'll understand.
2007-06-07 03:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Smurf 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should hang out with him. Don't get too serious (at least for now), but just get to know each other. It's only a two year difference. Right now you might think it's a lot but it's really not. There's nothing wrong with it and if you like him then I think it would be cute. But i have a question...is your friend OK with all this?
2007-06-07 03:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God I have been in those shoes before. Its a trickey situation because your friend may not like the fact of you and her brother dating. I would talk to her first and tell her how you feel and how you think he feels and see what she says. If she is OK with it, then move forward. But if she really isn't, then back off of him.
2007-06-07 03:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if it was me i would go out with him but is always a scary thing because hes 16.You should try to get all the background info on him like how he treats his girlfriends.Tell me how it works.
2007-06-07 03:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...i tink u should get to noe him more....i hav a friend tat i lik and he found out but the only reason i started liking him was b/c of his personality and i hang out wit him all the time...if u rlly tink tat he is worth it u should go for it...but if ure unsure...just take some time and tink...will tis make me happy and do i rlly lik him baqq...trust me, u dont want to b in a relationship where u dont lik the person in tat way...i would noe...tings can get a lil complicated...if he doesnt want to hang out wit u if u reject him then tat just means hes not worth it...dont worry bout the age difference...age is just a #...but ur feelings are wt matters!!!
2007-06-07 03:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by berritscold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. you're still pretty young to be getting into a relationship with someone 2 years older. I think that you should just try being friends.
2007-06-07 03:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is hanging out and platonic I don't see a problem unless your parents have age restrictions. If your not sure, ask. Do not, no matter what, try to sneak around, it always ends badly.
2007-06-07 03:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by 32nkikin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with hanging out and becoming friends with this guy. Take it slow, nothing too serious too soon. As long as your parents are ok with it, I say live it up girl. You'll figure out pretty soon whether you really like him...
2007-06-07 03:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by Due Date: May 16, 2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that your parents would be ok with you guys dating or even just hanging out together? Believe me, if your parents aren't going to be cool with it then it is so not worth the hassle!
2007-06-07 03:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by hopeym23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok to like someone who is a couple of years older, just don't let him push you into anything you are not ready for. And make sure your parents are ok with this.
2007-06-07 03:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age it seems too young to be on dates alone, only group activities. So if you like him see him along with friends so you don't have to be alone with him.
2007-06-07 03:19:03 · answer #11 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋