Before you send answers don't be too brief put yourself in my shoes...
I met this guy name jim while my b/f was in jail. We had so much fun together and we got involved intamently. However I think he had a g/f too. But we started to gain strong feelings for each other over the summer. Jim went to florida for mothers day and he asked me did i want to go. At the time I wasn't excepting anything he had to offer me simply b/c I was confused.
So he went away to florida. We kept in contact. I called him the first week he left he didn't answer. He called me the second week he left I was laid up with my b/f in a hotel. My boyfriend called his number back but to this day i don't know if they had contact with each other. I just know when Jim let 8 weeks pass and finally came back to see me.
I was so happy to see him...he was asking me what did i want and at the time I knew but I just was too proud to say it. Lil did i know that would be my last time seeing him?
what went wrong? HELP
2007-06-07 03:13:29 · 12 answers · asked by Janice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Where did he go? What was ur bf in prison for? I would have to say dump ur BF! Jeff probably had tlk with ur bf and they both got mad!! Stay away from ur bf if u take my advice!! GO find Jeff!! Did he say where he went for mother's day!!! If he did then go there,find is parents, and find him!!! U truly have something special!! call HIM AND DO EVERYTHING IN UR POWER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-07 03:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kathleen M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jim obviously thought that you wanted to stay with your b/f so he moved on and so should you . You like alot of other people wanted your cake and eat it too . Life dont work that way and he forced you to make a decision and you could not therefore he thought he did not stand a chance . I wish you well and maybe next time you will make the right choice .
2007-06-07 10:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What went wrong? If you told this story to your mother what would she say? She would tell you that you have been disrepectful to your relationship with your bf and with your love interest. She would tell you that you need to focus on yourself, education and set your sights higher than a jailbird or someone who would cheat on their girlfriend. Making good decisions is not rocket science. You are not making good decision, but decisions based on what you feel. Use your head. Listen to your mother. Get an education and set your sights on someone with values. Your "picker" is broken.
2007-06-07 10:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ranger D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What went wrong? Isn't it obvious?
Jim obviously figures you're with your boyfriend now. He had higher expectations from you - maybe he thought you would have dumped your boyfriend for him before sleeping with the bf again. Now, he sees that you don't have the integrity he thought you had - although why he thought that you would, I don't know.
2007-06-07 10:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure you worded that the way i understand, but you will never see which guy again? If I was you I wouldn't want to be with either...one is jail...so that says enough about that...and one is cheating on his GF with you, so he will cheat on you too....however you are cheating on jail bird so that doesn't speak highly of you...
2007-06-07 10:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what went wrong is that u got caught in ur game! lol but its ok u got dat othat person the 1 who went to jail!
2007-06-07 10:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by blushes_blushes_blushes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love means care and being cared for-and this is the answer to your heart-its above 2 different guys and wondering about who you love=you will never be let down by Jesus= I prayed-Jesus, I am sorry I have let you down-even with one lie, come into my heart and help me do better, be my friend, amen.
in amazing grace that saved me Revelation 3 (verses 19&20) He loves each of us & knocks on our heart door to come in and forgive sin when we repent-even of one lie, and Jesus says then I will begin a fellowship with you as my friend, when you ask me in. praying for you, David
2007-06-07 10:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were involved with two men. That dosn't work. You can't have your cake, and eat it too........pick one or the other, but don't bounce back and forth, just because one is not avaiable.
2007-06-07 10:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone had to let someone go. He realized he was wrong in dealing with you while he was with someone. Like someone said you can't have your cake and eat it too.
2007-06-07 10:24:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe..he doesnt want both of you to be hurt thats why he leave..u have a relationship and he doesnt want to ruin it so hes moving away,,,bec he love you,hes setting you free for you to choose who you really like...
2007-06-07 10:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by cheekyangel_0023 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋