i have this guy friend who is 20 and he has been trying to flirt with my 13 year old sister when ever he came over. last night my parents were out and i had a date planned. i'm dumb ok i didn't realize that he wanted to be with her alone while i was gone. well things with that date didn't work out. i was blown off. these are two different guys in case anyone gets confused. my sister spent the night with a friend and i guess the guy who wants her followed over there because when i went to check on her hours after she left he was trying to go after them in the girl's room. the mom was on the phone in the basement. so i saved the girls told my parents and the cops and told my guy friend who did it to f..k off and get a life. now he says that he was paid to go for her. and he is trying to give this sorrow story of all kinds of problems. what do i do now?
2007-06-07 03:11:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the right thing and there's nothing more you can do. If he's going to be "pitiful" that's his problem, he realizes he made a mistake and doesn't know how to handle it, it's not your problem to worry about, it's his. So you sit back and relax and know that your little sister and her friends are safe because of you, and that perv has just got some mental issues.
2007-06-07 03:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
his problems should not cause you or your sister problems, you were quite right to phone the police and at the first sign he is back on the scene do exactly the same thing again, 20 years old and chasing a 13 year old, this is not normal or acceptable behaviour. Nip it in the bud at every opportunity. Warn your sisters friends parents too of the situation and keep a close eye on her.
2007-06-07 10:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i tell you get someone esle omg that is so fliping wrong ok im sorry get that guy out of your house for good wow way to call the cops and tell your parents about it all right... and what kinda sorrow tell him even though your down etc does not have the right to have my 13 year old sister to your self and you thinking bad
2007-06-07 10:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by Partyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and let the cops sort it out. I feel he is lying and thank God he didn't harm your sister
2007-06-07 10:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying to you so he can still see her. Get a restraining order.
2007-06-07 10:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by fallen_angel_0_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order, he's psycho!!!
2007-06-07 10:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋