The next time he asks you a question that you don't want to answer, simply say "Why do you want to know that?" in a soft, non-threatening way. Chances are he won't be able to answer you, and he will think twice about asking you any more questions.
I have used this tactic when someone asks me something too personal or I know they are looking for gossip. It works every time - no one wants to admit that they are being nosey. And sometimes, they don't even realize how offensive and intruding their questions are - which is what I think this guy's problem is.
2007-06-07 03:19:55
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answered by lyndsey7323 3
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Asking questions is this persons way of controlling the conversation. Since he's asking all of the questions, you can only discuss what he wants to discuss. When you try to take the conversation to another level (by giving more of a dialog), he doesn't stick around. Get it? You're dealing with a control freak.
He got your hint, but ignored it. You can either come right out and say something like: "You know, I don't mind having a conversation with you; but I don't want to answer a bunch of questions," or you can simply change the subject whenever he asks you a question. Either approach will work, but I would use the first one and be done with it. If he later comes back with something like: "I know you don't want to answer any questions, but can I just ask you this?" Your response should be: if it's not work related, "NO."
2007-06-07 04:02:07
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answered by Anonymous
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Are they personal questions or are they questions related to work?
I work with a guy like that except he doesn't ask questions, he just talks my ears off about stupid stuff like shrits he has in his closet or what he got in the mail. I have spoke with him, and then eventually I ignored him so I can stay focused on projects i'm working on and he will keep calling my name until I look in his direction. I had to sit him down and tell him that I can't talk much because I'm too busy. He cut it down tremendously.
For your situation, you can tell him that even though you would really like to help him out, that sometimes you get really busy and the questions are distracting you and you really need to stay focused on what you are doing. You can say that you don't mind helping him with a few, but that as of now, there are too many questions being asked. Really though, how many questions can this guy really ask? Is there no other source of information he can get answers from besides you? Hope it works out for you!
2007-06-07 03:20:08
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answered by Anonymous
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If he keeps doing this all the time then it's a fact he knows it's annoying you so just tell him straight to piss off and stop talking to you. If you keep it bottled up it will cause stress and you will end up beating the crap out of him if you don't do something. This guy is not friend material so it doesn't matter what he thinks after you tell him this so be a man and tell him where to go.
2007-06-07 05:15:27
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answered by npleck 2
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Ask a question back when he asks one. He will get the hint. Be blunt and ask why he wants to know, or just why?? Ask him if you look like a walking encyclopedia set.
If he sees he is irritaiing you, it gives him the edge.
Put it back on them or ask to be moved if possible.
Only answer questions you know about. Other wise I DON'T KNOW works well or WHO CARES?? gets the point driven home. Tell them how you feel, maybe they will fade away.
2007-06-07 03:17:16
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answered by donna D 4
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answered by degraffenreid 4
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You could simply head them off - stop them before they ask you anything & say that you're really busy at the moment and would it be OK if you dropped by their desk when you had a free minute. If they stop you later & ask why you haven't ome to see them, you can honestly say that you haven't had that free minute pop up. =)
2007-06-07 03:20:11
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answered by Babs 4
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The next time he asks a question try asking him why he needs to know. I would answer his questions with a question of my own so he will be the frustrated one.
2007-06-07 03:27:42
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answered by Maria b 6
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dont laugh. be open and honest and upfront. "hon, i just really dont feel like talking right now." or "sorry i dont have time to chat"
if you laugh he'll think you arent serious.
good luck!
2007-06-07 03:17:22
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answered by neonatheart 4
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Tell me when you find out.
2007-06-07 03:12:57
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answered by Anonymous
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