she went out with another younger man than her and me there in Germany and I am 4500 km far from her.. cheated on me and our two and half years old relationship, and made the new year turning to 2007 hell.. for me I even tried to kill my self but did not sucsseed, later on I found out that she even got pregnant from that guy and lost the baby fixed a loop and found out that she loves me really.. as per her statement. we are back because I love her.. but I can't trust her, the other guy is still communicating with her there in Germany.. although she told him that she loves me and as per her words he expressed his love to her.. and wanting to meet her.. shoud I go on with this relationship of let it go?
2007-06-06 22:14:09 · 11 answers · asked by wild wadi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone needs a second chance co'z she might not do it again.. You should ask yourself whether you can forgive her or not. Co'z you can't tell. Once you get back together, and quarrell for sometimes, you might dig up the issue again just to put blame on her. In your case, you said, she was already pregnant then.. Are you sure that you can accept her wholeheartedly?? without bringin' up the past in some future??
2007-06-06 22:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by peperoni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go..
Right now, she's in love with you- but what happens when that spark starts to dwindle again. Plus you cant have a successful relationship without trust. If you cannot trust her, then you are goin to (inadvertantly) push her away.
It seems like the majority of the damage has already been done, let it go and move on.
2007-06-06 22:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by Paulo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd let it go. Once a cheat always a cheat. Especially if she is still talking to this other man. If she loved you she would cut him off all together. You can't have a successful relationship without trust.
2007-06-06 22:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by HeatherzFeatherz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no man dont even think about it. if she really loved you she wouldt have ditched you. She was and still is using you. just let her go shes not worth it.
good luck!
2007-06-06 22:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by sweet P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from just reading the title of the question it sounds like a bad idea
once a cheater, always a cheater
2007-06-06 22:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by sparkles_x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way Jose. Get rid of her.
2007-06-06 22:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go son let it go
2007-06-06 22:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by K.Rowley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was tempted once, she'll be tempted twice. especially if shes STILL talking to him. lose her. you'll feel better.
2007-06-06 22:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooooo
2007-06-06 22:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the B*tch, you don't have to be a doormat!.
2007-06-06 23:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by charterman 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋