There is this guy i like and sometimes moments we get along good like spending whole day together watchin movie,making out a lil bit, ^_^
But then HE has some moments when he acts strange like, doesnt call me, always pretend to be a busy man or pretend to be something he s quiet not, or putting me in akward situations so then i ignore him too THEN he becomes kinda mad why i am acting shady auff drama..
So gurls or even boys what yall think?Should i stay with him and tryna work it out like he always says or leave for better?
thnx
2007-06-06 20:40:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dr. Phil says people treat you the way you allow them to treat you.........
My opinion is that you are spending too much time with him [you said the whole day] and that is for married people. Also, he is already taking you for granted; not calling or letting you know what's goin' on. Keeping you in the dark. It's kinda late in the game to start making changes tho. Just speaking for myself, I would lose him and start all over with someone else. AND this time don't be so "available." Value yourself and don't let people take advantage of you. Remember, some people will treat you any old way if you allow it. Like I said; learn to value yourself.
2007-06-06 20:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went thru same problems with my bf who is now my fiance.. till today i have no idea why he acted that way.. he would be extra attentive when we were together but wud show indifference on many occasions.. but i decided it was best to give him a chance and now we are engaged.. but honestly this behavior sucks while it lasts...
a good thing that i did was to completely refuse to call him.. if he called, we talked.. if not, i never tried... i will still once in a while send him a mushy text or appear at his workplace out of the blue.. but usually i was indifferent too or pretended to be.. that made it stronger and it led to some great things...
2007-06-07 03:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, you should stick it out for a little bit longer and work it out. But if your tired of it then you should leave. Talk to him and tell him that if you guys are going to be together he has to stop having those moments where he acts strange and stuff. Or at least explain why he does it or something.
2007-06-07 03:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most guys do that..and if he gets mad when you do the same thing alk to him about it..but he obviously cares if he gets mad when you do the same thing to him=)
2007-06-07 03:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely1024 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋