he says he'll shoot outside instead. does that means i am also at risk of getting pregnant?
2007-06-06 20:28:37 · 38 answers · asked by apple-licious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Coming from a guy here, a 24y/o EMT who has been with his share. No Condom NO Sex. Put it that plain and simple if he can not respect you enough to do that you do not need him.
2007-06-06 20:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by bigboper123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't be naeve, you know how many girls get pregnant beacuse of not using condom. Even if he shoots out, there is still risk for you to get pregnant. Always use a condom or other contaception. Postiron Duo can be used up to 72hours after u 'va had sex without any protection and u won't get pregnant. Or u can use other pills, but you have to take them everyday. I always go for a condom - protects you from everything - pregnancy, deseases.
U know what u should say. U should tell him what I tell guys:
"U put that condom on or get out"
Honesly girl, don't do that. A lot of sh** happens on Earth. U don't wanna do that to yourself. Maybe you will say you love him, but just think. If he cares about you, he would never make you do things u don't want. Use a condom, be smart.
2007-06-06 20:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dobbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are running a high risk of contracting an unwanted STD and pregnancy. It only takes 1 time to get pregnant and to get an STD, if I were you, I would not take that chance. Even if he "shoots outside", pre-ejaculation can cause pregnancy.
Be careful, Be safe, and use a condom. You really don't know where he has been and it is not worth it to contract something you don't want. Refuse sex if he still insists on not using a condom.
2007-06-06 20:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by *purplelicious* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE demand the condom or tell him no sex--how old are you two?? He sounds like a misinformed person--sex is also a way to get disease--shoot outside or not--better get a few good books first---maybe you two should wait for a while--there is something way off base here. Boyfriend??? Does he intend on marrying you--did you ask?? Might be an important question to ask him--if he says no--you say no. Sex is not a game--babies come from condoms that leak too--a little rip could be a bad deal---you need to get an education about all this stuff.
2007-06-06 20:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are still in danger of getting pregnant. It doesn't matter he is is going to "shoot outside" because you are still at risk of getting pregnant because of the liquids that the penis releases before the actual ejaculation. This liquid carries some sperm. So the best thing to prevent a pregnancy while having sex would be to use a condom.
2007-06-06 20:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Rodrigo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely ! The only way you can prevent a pregnancy is to get some type of birth control. And you need to have been taking the pills for about 30 days after your last period before you can start sex. The pills are taken daily, and at the same time of day. You can only obtain a prescription for b/c pills from a doctor.
I would advise you not to start sex until marriage.
2007-06-06 20:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont...whether he shoots out or not there is still a good chance of you getting pregnant.
There is no 100% at the point of doing he will be able to remove it to shoot it outside.
Also with so many disease and if he know how to shoot outside, he is well train and he could be carrying disease.
So if you must do before marriage than use condom......even it is not 100% full-proof.
2007-06-06 20:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by Freakout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without any protection like that, there is always a chance that precum or sperm will escape into your vagina, meaning that no matter how how hard you try there is always some chance of pregnancy (Even with birthcontrol there is but its much more dependable) If this is your first time, don't do that, there is no way a virgin will be able to pull out after the 20 seconds you will be having sex.
2007-06-06 20:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You shall b at risk of getting pregnant even if he take it out at some point... Anyways, pregnancy is not the only problem that can occur, therefore - he must use a condom.
2007-06-06 20:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by mallika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are still at risk, condom is the way to go! You can look this up, you can still get pregnant if he just "pulls out" since men have pre-ejacuate (sorry if spelled wrong) that could get inside you during sex!
2007-06-06 20:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by dixiechick_sc 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can still get pregnant. The "pull-out" method is not 100% effective against pregnancy or STDs. If you're worried about getting pregnant or getting STDs, tell him he MUST wear a condom or you won't have sex with him.
2007-06-06 20:32:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋