I met this girl at a party on friday night and i really like her, i dont know if she likes me, although that doesnt matter, the point is i shouldnt be feeling like this, im happy with my girlfriend of 4years, or at least i thought i was until friday, what should i do? I though I woulda just forgot about her by now but I haven’t its still the same.
2007-06-06 20:26:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave it alone son your forget about her in no time.
2007-06-06 20:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by K.Rowley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy with your girlfriend, and love her then these feelings that you are having for this other girl is just an attraction. There is nothing there. It is very common for a man or a women in a long term relationship to develop feelings for other members of the oppisite sex. When you are with someone for so long you begin to get attracted to everything that that person represents. Have you thought about what this girl represents to you? Does she look dress, smell, dmile or laugh like your girl? What are the similarities. I am sure that whatever you are feeling is strictly an attraction wheter physical or emotional...but trust me the grass is never greener on the other side.
It could also be that you like her becuase she is something you cannot have, or something completely different than what you do have. I couldn't tell you whch one it is. But remember this think everything through before you make any decision that will or could reuin the relationship you have with your girl of four years.
2007-06-10 17:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by E>SummerLove<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These new feelings are new and fresh because you have been dating someone for so long. This is very normal in a serious long term relationship.
The feelings wont go away easy though. You just need to learn how to turn those feelings from the new girl back to your girlfriend.
Remind yourself why you are still with her. Remind yourself why you find her sexy and attractive. Remind yourself why you are always happy everyday and you see those feelings for the other girl start to fade away.
2007-06-07 03:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love your girlfriend and you really are happy it won't be difficult to move on and forget the other girl- she has probably forgotten you already! If you feel the need to be looking else where then you need to re-evaluate your relationship with your girlfriend because something needs putting right.
2007-06-07 03:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, it might just be a crush :) If your in love with your girlfriend then just focus on that :)
The mind tends to wander every now and then, even when your happy in a relationship. You can never stop attraction, just don't worry too much :)
2007-06-07 03:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by kirstalina81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been with your girl friend for 4 years i don't think you should break up with her mabe what your feeling for the next girl is just another strange attraction she might be your true love but at the same time it might be very dangerous cause you might end up hurting yoour self and your girlfriend .
2007-06-11 01:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do know that you can be in love, and be attracted, to someone else. It isn't unusual. However, if you value your girlfriend and relationship, you'll put it behind you. To act on it, could mean, jeopardizing your relationship. You wouldn't want to do that. That is, if it is as solid as you say.
2007-06-07 03:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by whatnext 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your gf, she is a good lady and youenjoy her company you should just get over the other girl because you don't even know her and women can be heart breakers too...don't mistake it.
but if you are lusting this strongly after another girl maybe you don't need to be with you gf, it just is not fair to her.
2007-06-07 03:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand where your coming from..ive been with my mrs for 14 years now and in that time i have watched her little sister grow into a stunning young lady, whom i get mixed feelings about.i think its only natural to get these feelings as people always want the forbidden fruit..its all fantasy and you need to get that into your head
2007-06-07 03:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being a child in a candy shop
whats the point you'll only hurt yourself and others
2007-06-07 04:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay to look, but don't touch!! If you are feeling like the relationship is good, I suggest you keep that fantasy in your head.
2007-06-07 03:31:35 · answer #11 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋