please help he is one of my good friends.and his girlfriend is a *****.
2007-06-06 18:24:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*Dont be a spoil - sport !!!!!!!!! Move on !!!!!!
There r many fish in the pond ! --- find one !!
2007-06-07 17:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by ๏๓ รђคภtเ, รђคภtเ รђคภtเ ....... ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should give up on him... he already has a girlfriend ( and it doesn't matter what your opinion is of her )... she is still in his life. I think you already know that it is best to move on... don't allow yourself to be the " other woman "... you will only be compromising your heart. If he is one of your good friends then... why not just leave it that way. Sometimes it is best to have people in our lives as really good friends than anything else. You should take time out to ask yourself... " at what point in your life could you really be happy sleeping with your friend that already has a girlfriend?" And... " why consider him as a potential candidate for a boyfriend when he is already cheating on his current girlfriend?"... Think about it. Good Luck!
2007-06-07 01:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by Candy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how it is that the two of you slept together, but if he's got a girlfriend and it isn't you, sleeping together seems to be something he takes pretty casually. I don't know you're definition of "*****", but I don't think his girlfriend thinks too highly of you or should think too highly of him either.
As for should you move on, I don't think it matters much. He doesn't seem to respect relationships so whether you were in one or not, he'd probably act about the same.
2007-06-07 01:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by LC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u need to be clear about what u hope to achieve here. My view is that ppl should not play around with other ppls feelings. Honesty and sincerity and expressing how you feel are so important. Is his relationship on the wane? Is he hoping he has you b4 he drops her? What are you hoping for from him? How much trust will remain if you know he is prepared to be disloyal. So many questions cld remain unaswered. But you can choose and whatever your choice you need to live with the consequences of that choice. too many ppl blame others after m,aking the wrong choice.
2007-06-07 06:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you call his girlfriend a ***** when you're sleeping with her boyfriend?
Anyways, get away from the situation. He doesn't sound like someone who really cares if he's making a move on you while with someone else. Doesn't really sound like he's very concerned about your feelings or his girlfriend's.
2007-06-07 01:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u should face him n tell him how u realy feel towards him.dnt mention his gf n see how he'll react.i think u shouldn't even slept w him in ze first place cz he's a good friend n if he doesn't want u then this thing will teach 4 next to separate between goodfriends n others
2007-06-09 07:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a two way street you have to determine hes feelings for you first, are you just one of hes one night stands? Is he willing to give up hes present relationship. Remember if he can have flings when still in a relationship what makes you think he wont do the same to you.
2007-06-07 01:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by ANDREW B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is not worth your love. he has a girlfriend but he still sleeps with you.
Just imagine if one day the 2 of you really gets together... he can sleep with another woman too...
Dump him now before it is too late.
Anyway, even if his current girlfriend is a ***** has got nothing to do with you.
2007-06-07 01:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by aUDREy TTT 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are ready for the truth. This guy has cheated on his girlfriend with you and what makes you think it won't happen to you if you get with him. But if you don't like that answer, which I would not, Try this one. Step back let him leave his girlfriend so you know when you he breaks up with her you know it had nothing to do with you and he sincerly did not want to be with her. That way when yall are together you won't have to worry about him running back to her.
2007-06-07 01:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by Tisa 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Umm... no offence man, but you're the one who's the *****. Why would you sleep with someone who's got a girlfriend?
Shiiit... grow up.
2007-06-07 01:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by kirstalina81 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
His girlfriend is a *****?
2007-06-07 01:26:51 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋