is he cheating?? please help?

Question

ok well i told him about the myspace thing he had his x on his top n didnt have me up there at all he said he will change it but he got on today n didnt change it hmm...so i asked him he was like "well i forgot i just got on n off" so i didnt say nothing bout that so i asked him why he dont call after he stayed the night for the wekkend he said i been bizzy helpin nmy father i dont no if he tellin the truth or if he cheatin some one help please i really love him i dont wont to break up

Answer 1

Don't mind the myspace stuff too much. I'll put people as top friend cause they have a cool picture & profile.
As for the cheating issue. I am facing the same problem myself. But don't lose heart...If he is not the one, there's always someone else out there for you.

Answer 2

Well, that is a hard one because guys and some girls dont really care as much as changing little pointless things and we alot of times just forget. He might be right about his father and he might be wrong but all you have to do is just wait it out. If you catch a trend then yes he is definetly cheating

Answer 3

well, there are 2 ways to approach this:

1) don't nag. watch and wait, see if he's a truly honest person.
2) tell him you will not sleep with him again until you are sure that he is serious about your relationship and not too "busy" to take care of business.

there is no way to know if he is cheating. i will tell you this: if you are this worried and upset over this man, you are in for more heartache to come in the months ahead. you obviously don't trust him. girl, you don't need to be messin with someone you don't trust. find a guy who you are SURE loves you, not one who you have to always be guessing about.

Answer 4

He may be still seeing his ex, or he may be busy. You gut will tell you which. Give him a day or so. If it is not off, thenn tell him that you want to break up. When he asks why, tell him that you think that he is disrespecting you by having her still on there and not even calling you after he stayed with you.

Answer 5

I don't understand why girls stay with guys they can't trust. It's worth it to just be without a guy for a few months till you find a better one than to stay in a bad relationship for longer and just regret it. Trust is key. And trust your gut. If it tells you he's cheating confront him, and if you feel he's lying, leave him.

Answer 6

Don't fight over top 8s, it's pretty stupid.

It's myspace, not yourspace. (haha, once I read that it cracked me up)

But with all the quick excuses it seems as though he's not being faithful and doesn't even want you, since he obviously isn't putting effort into a good excuse, lol.

Good luck!

Answer 7

Wow stfu get a life, myspace? Top 8 arguements, you obviously have no life. Your an idiot I hope he is cheating on you with some girl who doesnt give a rats *** about his top 8.

Answer 8

hey hun! i know you probally get this all the time, but the only real way to know is if you confront him. or unless you catch him in the act. just tell him how you feel, and take it from there. who knows, he could be telling the truth all guys arent the same. hope this helps.

Answer 9

what does your heart tell you? things like this are hard to accept. watch out for other signs. things like he always has his phone with him but when you call he doesnt answer. or takes a reall long time to call back.

Answer 10

Well, honestly it seems like he may be cheating.
But, if he is you shouldn't stay with him it will only cause you a lot of heart ache and it's not worth it. if he loves you he will be faithful.