hes told me that he doesnt feel the same ne more but he doesnt kno what he wants. what would you do?
2007-06-06 17:54:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Geez, I never thought I'd tell a girl who is as cute as your picture to dump a guy....but if he's that big of an idiot.... cut him loose!
You won't have any problems finding another guy. Unless your boyfriend is super hot, he'll flounder for quite a while before he recovers.
2007-06-06 18:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by marsminute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is time to move on. If someone you are dating says they don't know if they still feel the same way about you then even if you make it through this portion of the relationship. Then how long before he flip flops again. Sounds like he does not know his own feelings yet. Move on and find someone that is stable enough in their feelings to be willing to work through these periods of time without hurting you.
Good luck
2007-06-07 01:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him go. Tell him you cant be with someone that isnt sure about what they want, and leave it alone for a few days. That means for 3 days, no text messages, no phone calls no visits. See what happens. If he really wants you back, then he will fight for you, but if not, just move on. My advice, make sure you fill up your social calendar NOW and go visit as many people as you can to take your mind off him.
2007-06-07 00:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. sadly, its over. Gather up all your resources and personal ammunition. BLOW HIM OFF. That statement to me means WAR. End it with your dignity in tact. Tell him you felt exactly the same way but didnt know how to tell him and thank him for bringing it up then WALK. Dont go out weaker or it will take 4 ever to get over it. Go out strong. He said its over, now you dont have to have manners with him anymore
:) lol
2007-06-07 00:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask him what he means by "Doesn't feel the same anymore" You could be eaisly misunderstanding his statement. Give it about a week or two, and if he still says that kinda crapola, Dump him HARD.
2007-06-07 00:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would totally give him the request that he said he needs. Tell him that until he knows what he wants that you agree with going seperate ways. Let him know that you don't want to be with a person who doesn't know how he feels about you or not.
2007-06-07 01:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by BG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still want to see him ask him if it would be okay with him for you date other people and give it a trial run of seeing other people.
2007-06-07 01:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Sean B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just in a confused state right now. Weither it be you, or something else in his life. Just give him support and talk things out, and see how things go from there.
2007-06-07 00:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by irishredfishstick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him... you deserve better. Everyone deserves to have someone that thinks the world of them.
Move on and dont waste any more time with him.
2007-06-07 01:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that I told you before all he wanted was the sex. Nothing else time to move on.
2007-06-07 08:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋