This guy dated this girl awhile ago and their still good friends andwere right after their break up. He dated me for 3 months not exclusively and we got along great and our break up was after he was in another country for 2 weeks and he came back and said it was weird bc he was gone so long. I think something happened there but he shouldnt feel guilty bc we were not exclusive. But he seems sad when he sees me and wont talk to me when we see each other at work? (part time job, different departments) Why can he be friends with this other girl but not me? Also I have been trying to seem fine and happy and not hurt over this, but I am. I would like to be friends and possibly even give it a second chance.
2007-06-06 16:12:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the other girl was way before me and although we were not exclusive he did not see anyone else but me before he left
2007-06-06 16:22:18 · update #1
Ignore him...
Read "Why Men Love Bitches"
2007-06-06 16:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Rockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was only gone 2 weeks so that was a lie about him being gone so long. Since the 2 of u were not exclusive, he never wanted you in the first place and this other girl is someone that he wants to be with and he just doesn't have the heart to be straight up and tell you. But don't sweat it there is one born every minute...sucka!!
2007-06-06 23:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by Melinda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only dated for three months, and dated other people. He apparently has issues he needs to work out. Leave him alone and maybe he will come around again. He also may be more involved than you realize with the girl before you. Give him the space and move on.
2007-06-06 23:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by RT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know either of you personally but all you can really do is talk to the guy and see what's up..I mean im shy and dont like to confront people but if you want the boy than you gotta do what you gotta do and standing around wonering whats wrong isnt gonna get you there.
2007-06-06 23:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by *megan* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he did something so bad that he can't face you, or maybe he knows something you did and is disgusted by it or maybe he just does not like you anymore period. Sorry to be so blunt at the end. Maybe should try asking him (just speak up, hopefully he won't walk away)if there is any reason why you both can not be friends. COMMUNICATION is KEY
2007-06-06 23:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by paris h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably because he did sumthing bad when he was in this other country that he know he should tell you about but feels so bad about it that he cant even stand to see you. find out anyway you can and then decide wheather you should give him another chance
2007-06-06 23:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him gal. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't want to be with you. Dont' give him another chance to hurt you again.
2007-06-06 23:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it..Ask him whats the problem. It's o:k
2007-06-06 23:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know what you need to do. you don't need anyone on yahoo answers to tell you.
2007-06-06 23:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by frenchmanonthesilvermountain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him whether he has problems....
2007-06-06 23:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋