can you help me!!!!!
2007-06-06 16:00:30 · 14 answers · asked by necole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i didnt nothing to him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-06 16:06:11 · update #1
ooh i'm good at this.
-uhhm on MSN or whatever IM u use, he'll only reply with the shortest possible answer like "k"
-will try and avoid you at all costs
-will even like talk to another girl in front of your face to try and get you jelous
-his friends stop talking to you
-just he seems unintrested when he talks to you, if he does
etc, u can usually tell
2007-06-06 16:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by cutie.pie_xo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has your father ever been mad at you?
Has your mother ever been mad at you?
Has an aunt or uncle ever been mad at you?
Has a brother or sister ever been mad at you?
Has a grandparent ever been mad at you?
Has a friend, male or female ever been mad at you?
Has this guy ever been mad at you before?
He will probably act like one of the above examples.
2007-06-06 23:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. Some guys are vocal about their displeasure with you and say hurtful things. Some will remain silent or won't talk to you until he is over it.
2007-06-06 23:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gives you the quiet treatment, ignores you, talks in a sarcastic and moody way, and spends less time with you.
2007-06-06 23:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by volcomfallensk8ter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll either tell you he's mad at you or clam up and not talk to you, in which case you should ask him if he's mad at you.
2007-06-06 23:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's face will get red, very angry till he wants to hit you hard or just wanna cry in front of you. That's how my bf is.
2007-06-06 23:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how do you treat someone when you are mad at them?
Draw from that.
2007-06-06 23:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well miss i think he would act standoffish....probably sit and pout maybe....have his arms folded, but can't say i know truly. can't bring myself to be upset at a female....seems unkind.
2007-06-06 23:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by Marky Marc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "Men are from mars, Women are from venus"
1) Guys have alot of deep feelings and get easily hurt...despite how they might act.
2) Because guys have alot of deep emotions and because society drills it into them that "boys don't cry"...and men are hardwired to be less verbal than women, it can be difficult to acknowledge them cause they've been taught from early on to be blind to them....but it still hurts....something hurts and they can not describe it very well. This is confusing for alot of guys.
3) As a result guys will A) make alot of noise ...yell, stomp around, fight and/or B) go into their "cave"...which is where they will clam up and any effort to get them out will drive them in there deeper. A clue that a guy's in his cave is he will say...in curt, business-like tone that he "does not want to talk about it". (period)
Trying to pry it out of them will only make them more frustrated and confused about their feelings...and piss them off more. (Think what it would be like for someone to insist that you converse with them on a personal topic in a forgein language that they are good at but you are not.)
You acting all rejected because they don't wanna talk about what ever it is will have the same effect...and maybe only succeed in them replacing you.
Tell them, "you seem sorta ____________(upset, mad, sad) I won't pry; but I'm here if you want to talk about it." That's it...no more trying to bring it up after that...maybe a pat on the back or arm to reinforce you are sincere.
Then drop the subject.
It's usually helpfull to then cheerfully suggest a guy-like ACTIVITY that's fun and you know they like to do...ride bikes, go shoot pool. It's also very cool to suggest that they go do it on their own..or you can come along if they want you too....but be sincere in telling them that they can go by themselves.
Guys will open up...on THEIR time...not yours ... if there's an activity to take their mind off it for awhile and make it "safe" for them to come out of their cave. Suggesting that they go hang out with their other guy pals ...while you go do "girl stuff"...helps too.
If they do not want to do that either...then they are REALLY in their cave...don't sit there and look rejected or put-off...leave them be..as in LEAVE...but make sure they know you are not leaving because you're pissed that they aren't paying attention to you or talking about what ever it is that's bothering them...you're leaving because you see they need alittle "cave time" and while they're caving you're going to go hang with your gyrl friends.
Tell them that they can call you when they want...not that they will, but it's nice for us guys to to know that their woman is there for when they're ready to de-cave.
When they do start talking...do NOT get defensive or judgmental...even one time... that will shut them up for good around you....just be their pal and listen. If they want to cry, tell them its OK .
2007-06-06 23:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by J T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't handle emotion well, they usually do really immature things.That is the best way to tell.
2007-06-06 23:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by miss.ljohnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋