i owez heard that big size woman are forbidden to like and even try to love them(normal size man). there say those two people really not suitable to be hanging around and live together coz it really hard to acept hmm it once happen to me.. hmm sumtime i feel that i was a really cant deserve to live coz of that.. well can give sum advise how to deal with those people who can't see people like us (big size woman) to get their own love???
2007-06-06 15:59:25 · 10 answers · asked by miss red 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, it's not true. I'm a big guy and I love big women and I see it all the time. I thought big girls were in. A lot of women I know prefer smaller guys. You might have been hearing that from your skinny friends. they don't want you to snatch up their guys, lol.
Heck I even hate on those smaller guys just a little bit because I see them with some cute big girls that I'd want to talk to and then I get to thinking: "It ain't bad enough they make it hard for me to find the nice good stuff in my size when I'm shopping, because the little dude over there wanted to have t shirts that look like he borrowed his big sister's night gown. After that he has to go and start dating all the fine thick women too! Where's the love??? lol"
2007-06-06 16:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by Nunna Yorz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever said that to you has things completely wrong. I am also a delicious woman aka big size, and I have gone out with and been asked out by some of the finest so called normal size men, I have only been asked out a couple of times by a large man, but rarely. Too many people have it in their minds that what they think is right for a certain group of people is what everyone thinks. We just have to deal with there being too many stupid people in this world. Once those men get a taste of deliciousness, they keep coming back. Keep your head up, and strut your stuff, don't let the haters get to you.
2007-06-06 23:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by mianjo413 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that depends on what u mean by big size. either way, love doesn't have any restrictions. i'm a curvy woman and most of my bfs have been really athletic, normal or skinny. it's just a matter of taste. if u feel uncomfortable with the way u look in terms of size, maybe u'll feel better if u do something. i felt uncomfortable next to my bf that had an 8-pack. it almost got to the point where when he'd want to lift my shirt to kiss me... i'd hold my shirt down. it was frustrating feeling big, so i started going to the gym (because I wanted to look and feel better for me first... and then him)
if that's what u're referring to, then no. anyone can fall in love with any kind of person.
2007-06-14 19:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie_12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just tell them that you are human too and you deserve love just as any other women does. why shouldn't you be with a normal size guy? there's nothing wrong with it at all. and people need to get off of there high house and see that just because we are big doesn't mean we shouldn't be loved too. everyone deserve love no matter what. and if you went to be with a normal size guy then you should go for it and tell everyone to f... off because it's not their life it's yours and his and you can love just as any other woman can love. don't let someone put you down because you are big at all. you need to stand up for self and feel good about yourself. they are jealous and don't think big women deserve happiness. trust me normal size men do love big size women. there are plenty of them out there. so don't give up on love because of some jerk.
2007-06-06 23:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by thydarknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's complete and total BS! It depends on what the other person likes. If a bigger person wants to be with a smaller person it can TOTALLY happen. Conceding to the myth that it isn't going to happen / shouldn't happen is not psychologically healthy.
Confidence is hot - insecurity is not! Go get what you want! You only want somebody that wants to be with you too regardless of your size.
"delicious" is a good word, "voluptuous" is a good word ... there is nothing wrong AT ALL with some size!
2007-06-06 23:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by ** Azzurri ** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! I see alot of big sized women with normal sized men.
2007-06-14 15:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FALSE FALSE FALSE!!!!!!!! ive seen so many people diferant sizes difrent heights and trust me they all fall in love!!!
ok if you need more info email me i gotta get off right now
with love,suzi<3
2007-06-14 22:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by hehehehe w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone deserves love it doesn't matter what size shape color or whatever i believe there is someone out there for everyone
2007-06-13 20:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by yp_brenda_wauregan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your nearest gym. Stop being a big girl. If I can lose weight, so can you.
2007-06-06 23:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
where did you hear this nonsense?
2007-06-14 05:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋