2007-06-06 14:44:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Love her and accept her choices as her choices.
2007-06-06 14:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you truly believe in Jesus, you wouldn't be thinking of hurting her,..... BTW, you said you believe,.. the question is do you KNOW and have a relationship with Jesus.
I had a 3 year relationship untill my ex decided to turn lesbian on me...... back then I was young and ignorant when it came to religion (maybe I still am). It's been about 5 years since and every night I still think of her (I have been thru 4 girlfriends since, just for the record)...
I wish I could go back in time and HELP her. She went thru so many things like drugs, jail-time, stealing, running away from her parents house,...... and she came to me asking for help,.. but I was sooo heart broken and mad at her, I was selfish and ignored her and made her face the consequences of her mistakes.
Im not saying that all gay people are doing mistakes,.... what Im saying is,..... she married you because she loves you, and if there is 1% chance for you two to be together, that is more than enough for you to get in there and make the chances grow.
She is only currious,... don't make her choose the taco over the sausage. And IF you truly love her, fight for love bro.
2007-06-06 15:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by jonathanman18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of what anyone may do in this life, including a spouse, we must all make the decision to believe in Jesus or not. This decision should not be influenced by what another person does. I am sorry about your wife, that must have broken your heart. The point is not so much how you keep from hurting her, it is how you live your life with this knowledge. Marriage don't always go right, so be true to yourself and trust in Christ to lead your steps. Blessings.
2007-06-06 14:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by angel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you are a threat to your wife, talk to a counselor. He may either suggest ways of controlling your anger, or, if he sees a potential pattern of aggression in your personality, he may recommend other alternatives of help, such as seeing a psychiatrist. In the meantime, stay away from her.
Another option to do both of these is to sign yourself into a hospital for mental reasons for a short period of time. Be sure to tell the people at the front desk that you feel that you may be a danger to your wife, and you will almost be guaranteed temporary admittance. Because you voluntarily signed yourself in, you will not be obligated to stay; you can check out anytime you wish. While you're there, the staff can help you work through your crisis and recommend safe and healthy alternatives.
Finally, you may not want to think about this, but you should look into a divorce, as neither of you will remain happy in marriage. Neither of you should confine yourselves to either adultery, or lifelong misery. And, if you don't look into the possibility, she probably will. The best route is to have both of you come to a mutual agreement on the legal aspects of the separation instead of trying to hash it out in a courtroom.
2007-06-06 14:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by jtrusnik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only want to hurt her because of male pride. You're hurt. She wants something else. Hurting her will not bring peace or a sense of completion. Jesus would not have sought that. An adult, centered man would not seek that.
Only a boy or a weak man would indulge an imagined need to harm another to feel "whole". Let it go, let her go, seek help to deal with your pain. You were not the answer to her happiness (might want to look within on that one), so move on with your life and wish her the best in her search for joy and completeness. Especially for any kids involved! They have enough of a challenge just growing up without your projecting your crap (either of you) on them.
2007-06-06 14:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by Skeff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex change out of the question? Hurting her? What the heck, why would you hurt her? If you feel the need to hurt her, you need to get out of the house and go stay somewhere for a while.
2007-06-06 14:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by fireflyman62 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her. God would. "I gave faithless Israel her certificate of divorce and sent her away because of all her adulteries." Jer 3:8
2007-06-06 15:26:10 · answer #7 · answered by Steve Amato 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's tough.
I think your marriage is over.
Sorry to say it so bluntly but I think that will be the inevitable consequence.
2007-06-06 14:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by Dark-River 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Embrace homosexuality.
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2007-06-06 14:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
respect her decision.
your love should not change because of the religion belief.
Show her you still love her the same.
2007-06-06 14:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋